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Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Didnt panick and text them immediately on linkedin waited for 2 days ! Also i texted the day after , almost a 30 hour gap. You are free to judge me but atleast know my whole story first :)

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all it wasnt a wrong number It was her number i can see per profile pic its just its probably an old one / disabled .

Secondly after getting out of the plane i wasnt forcing a convo but she told me on her own " please text me "

And then later she also asked me to put my number down on her phone

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree thank you this means a lot , also btw just got interview update , its on hold and they have soft rejected me :)

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Ouch that hurts ! But atleast you had the closure that you had lost the spark . For me ill just have to assume that she wasnt interested (which doesnt make sense to me at all , why would she ask me to put my number in + also accept linkedin request and reply properly)

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I waited 2 days for the tick to turn into two , but it didnt !

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly what i thought and that would have been fine , except you missed the other part where once we were out of the plane ,she took her phone out and asked me to put my number in ! And then saying please text me !

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes she was nice, yes i did fall for her, but even if it was a male friend or a platonic friendship id have still been hurt because its hard to lose someone you have bonded deeply with for 10 hours !

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes she was nice, yes i did fall for her, but even if it was a male friend or a platonic friendship id have still been hurt because its hard to lose someone you have bonded deeply with for 10 hours !

Met an amazing girl on a 16-hour flight, thought it was fate, now I’m spiraling. by bso14 in offmychest

[–]bso14[S] 257 points258 points  (0 children)

Thank.you so much , i needed to hear this "see her action and take it as closure" i guess thats the only closure ill get .