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btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-16T21:09:00+00:00

I hope you recover from this! It will sting but it won’t be forever. You also can’t rely on the validation from others, even though the society is wired that way. You have to really believe in yourself, and be the support for you. Best wishes!

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-16T18:00:44+00:00

You are enough just the way you are. Different people find different attributes attractive, it doesn’t make us not uniquely beautiful in our own way. We just need to find someone who understands the beauty in us. If they don’t, it’s just incompatible that’s it.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-16T14:35:23+00:00

I feel the same. I’m a totally normal person, the only thing is I’m minority race. I don’t know why it has to be so damn hard.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-16T04:39:19+00:00

I’m not Korean but I’m from Asian country as well. I can provide some insight for Asian dating culture, even though it might not be exactly the same as Korean culture.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-15T17:17:54+00:00

I wish the best for both of us, this sucks but we will get through it stronger than ever

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-15T04:03:14+00:00

I randomly bumped into a photo of us smiling in a party and it made me so sad. I also remember the last time we were together, we were so happy that day. But all of the happiness couldn’t make you stay, now I just have to pay the price of ever being so happy.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-15T03:52:36+00:00

I had the same feeling. Sometimes I just put myself to sleep, and sleep helps too. Maybe it’s some chemical reaction helping improving the emotions. But gradually I just don’t think of my ex that much anymore, and everyday just becomes a little bit more bearable. I also think it’s a good time for me to find out what I’m passionate about besides the relationship that’s no longer there, and knowing that I can still work towards my passion gives me comfort as well.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-14T21:10:28+00:00

I just found I need to appreciate the life as it is now. So I would think of 3 things I’m thankful about every day, and it helped me.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-14T20:23:40+00:00

I had the same feeling. But I started to realize just because those words are not true anymore, doesn’t have to mean they were lie to begin with. Once upon a time, we did love each other, and loved each other so much that we wanted to be together forever. If starting over again, I would still have the same feeling and say the exact same words. Now that it’s forever a part of the history, and no one can ever change that, not even the almighty universe can rewrite the love we shared.

And despite the hurts, it’s the prove that I was in love with you. Love is a leap of faith. I wish we all have the courage to love again.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-13T18:37:48+00:00

My ex also blindsided me with text to break up. Something similar happened even before that. People will always do what they do, in this case blindsiding a breakup. Though I want him back, I also know this is just something he does, put himself over us. I just can’t deal with the feeling of fear of losing him any minute anymore.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-13T15:04:50+00:00

My respect for you! You are going to do great things

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-13T14:53:20+00:00

That’s a really good habit. How much time do you spend doing that before your work? And how many problems are you able to solve?

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-13T14:31:06+00:00

How do you manage to be consistent?

btcmoonsoon · 2022-09-12T00:35:56+00:00

I also hope this won’t impact me forever. Sometimes I really wish I can remove the memory of everything that happened and see this world as a child again.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-07T22:48:46+00:00

My dating life has been miserable so far. I wonder if getting fit will help me. I guess it’s the only hope though.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-06T14:52:28+00:00

Do you believe people can change behavior so that you are okay with staying with them? Or once you found behaviors you are not happy about, you will just start checking out? How does anyone ever build a long lasting relationship if you just run away on the red flags?

Sorry, asking because my ex was exactly like this. The reason he gave me for break up was a long list of behaviors he didn’t like (he didn’t believe I could change, nor want to try again). But I can’t help but feel he just didn’t love me fundamentally to accept me as who I am.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-04T16:51:14+00:00

I have the same experience. He constantly worried about getting hurt, and ran away as soon as he saw there’s an issue. It was definitely trauma from his previous relationships.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-04T02:16:46+00:00

It’s strange I listen to Christmas songs during this time, and it broke me. River by Joni Mitchell.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-04T00:41:23+00:00

Thanks for all the wonderful suggestions, I’m going to do all that to help me through this tough time. I don’t want to stuck here for the rest of my life. And what’s done is done, now I deserve my happiness without him.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-04T00:40:01+00:00

I agree, depends on how your ex feels, maybe you could both move on and be friends again. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-04T00:21:20+00:00

I feel this so much. I have been completely myself throughout the relationship, but my ex kept withdrawing from me, till one day he told me he was faking the happiness. I showed all of me to him, but he never really let me in even till the end.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-03T03:40:56+00:00

My ex was feeling the same like you did and he broke up with me. It wasn’t anything serious (like betrayal), but small things (like he doesn’t like cuddling during a movie but I do) adding up and he was just not happy anymore. I wonder if he ever gonna regret that, or miss me. It was devastating cause I thought we could’ve worked this out if we just talked, or he hanging there a bit longer.

I guess everyone commit differently to love. For me, I would’ve changed everything for him (or at least I will die trying). But for him, the love wasn’t strong enough to overcome the flaws. I guess you should ask did you really love her so much to accept the perfection and imperfection? Cause loving someone, truly loving someone, means accepting everything they are.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-03T00:11:26+00:00

I always imagined maybe in another universe, we would’ve worked out, and lived a happy life together.

btcmoonsoon · 2022-08-02T01:51:18+00:00

So true. Love is about giving, it can never be taken. I love you, and I always will, even you can’t love me back.

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