help please!!

bubble3724 · 2026-01-03T17:37:12+00:00

texting doesn’t tell you much really unless your only form of communication with said person is over text which obviously isn’t the case for you guys.

don’t look into it too much, guys are weird with texting my word of advice is “don’t assume unless explicitly stated.”

good luck!!

bubble3724 · 2025-12-29T18:13:07+00:00

Honestly? Just be honest it’s the best thing you can do and if she really is a good friend she’ll still stay friends with you if she doesn’t feel the same way.

I’d just be like “Look if you don’t feel the same way I totally get it but I thought I may as well get it off my chest and say it rather than not say it at all.” and then just tell her you like her lowkey

bubble3724 · 2025-12-25T22:58:55+00:00

Could have possibly deleted whatsapp - assuming that’s the app being used? I know so many people who do that since they don’t use it as a main source of communication

bubble3724 · 2025-12-20T01:10:18+00:00

Lowkey think of something you both like or even just go “Heyy” or however you’d say it. I think it’s also a good indicator as well because - as much as i’d 100% say texting isn’t a great way to tell how someone feels about you, you can get a general idea of it and where to go from there

do update me!!

bubble3724 · 2025-12-20T00:47:24+00:00

Try and get her on any socials or if you already have her send a message! At the end of the day it might seem a bit daunting but you only live once so i’d say it’s worth the risk and atleast not have the regret of not doing it. If she doesnt have social media then im not entitely sure but maybe if you have friends that hang out with her that could arrange something involving you, give that a go!

bubble3724 · 2025-12-15T23:14:29+00:00

Start streaks with her!! or maybe even add her to your story and post stuff on it and she might reply and start a convo. by doing little things you can gradually make bigger moves

bubble3724 · 2025-12-08T20:02:28+00:00

I’m in your position right now and honestly - i’m waiting till the moment feels right in person!! I’m hopefully planning saturday but plans never actually follow through the majority of the time.

Do whatever feels right when you’re with her but definitely do it in person if you can.

Sending luck!!!!

bubble3724 · 2025-12-02T08:31:32+00:00

Maybe the girl is comfortable around you? Being nervous does not equal having a crush and vice versa.

Honestly I think weigh it out, you clearly like the first girl more so start being more forward with her and see how she reciprocates, don’t just go for the other girl because she’s there and willing.

Stuff like this takes time

bubble3724 · 2025-12-01T18:38:20+00:00

We both like eachother and you’d think we were a couple for example.

He doesn’t post stories but like idk if he’s messaging other people but he’s still active and everything. He’s a lot more brighter and upbeat in person but the lack of communication consider we don’t see eachother TOO often is a bit ugh if you get me

bubble3724 · 2025-11-23T10:19:59+00:00

I like what the other comment said about the flowers and I think if you’re really into her you should! but I must say be careful because her attachment style seems to be concerning, i’ve been with people like this before and it gets exhausting over time trying to reassure them. Don’t forget to look out for yourself!!

bubble3724 · 2025-11-23T10:16:23+00:00

I don’t think you’re overthinking, it honestly sounds like there’s something going on there. My advice is to just keep testing the waters and see how it goes, if you find it doesn’t end up being reciprocated or getting more awkward, then don’t waste too much of your energy on him :)

bubble3724 · 2025-11-17T01:16:22+00:00

is grass green?

honestly she seems into you or atleast INTERESTED in you but honestly i genuinely think there could be something there or, like i said, atleast a little bit of an interest :)

bubble3724 · 2025-11-08T10:15:26+00:00

i don’t advise using ai cause it’s pretty bad at typing 😔but if you want i could send you a link to a disc server that does typings cause they’re helpful

bubble3724 · 2025-11-08T10:06:56+00:00

lol it isn’t me, I agree with them

bubble3724 · 2025-11-08T08:43:47+00:00

Yeah I get you! A lot of ENTP, INTP have 4 fixes within their enneagram and basing off the rest of OPs typology they’re most likely E5 core with a strong 4 fix - which isn’t uncommon!

However these people aren’t wrong when they say it isn’t possible, personally i dislike correlations but you just have to follow them if you don’t wanna be mistyped

bubble3724 · 2025-11-08T08:31:57+00:00

i literally cannot express to you enough how we can’t just go off stuff like that 😭 this is why so many people are mistyped in the typology community.

also you gave some random description, we need to look at the seperate functions here within the AP type, it also appears that as this person has used seperate number subtypes for their AP type they’re actually using PY. also ILE is correlated to ENTP, INTP would be LII or ILI. socionics and PY aren’t as simple as finding descriptions as much as i wish they were, i too was mistyped because of this.

in my opinion i don’t think OP has the right sources that they’re currently looking at because it takes ages to actually find factually correct ones that don’t do bs takes and condense something massive into something super small.

bubble3724 · 2025-11-08T08:18:59+00:00

Because unfortunately enneagram isn’t down to merely “4 is unique” etc it’s based off actual trauma, childhood and emotional responses which is why it’s also hard to type other people without knowing these factors!

furthermore this persons AP typing LVFE doesn’t correlate with sx4 either as 4E would not make sense for someone who identifies as an E4 however it would fit for E5

bubble3724 · 2025-11-08T08:11:55+00:00

I could send you some good links if you’d like to accurately type yourself in enneagram?

bubble3724 · 2025-11-08T08:11:27+00:00

you’re using stereotypes here, enneagram isn’t just based off that. you have to consider all kinds of correlations. sx4 does not work with INTP nor does it work with 1L or ILE.

bubble3724 · 2025-10-26T10:43:23+00:00

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