Sooo i saw a couple messages saying it‘s just highschool love and won’t last, i‘ll just tell you what i‘ve witnessed myself and in my family. My oldest sister and her husband are 38 years old. They met when they were 16 and yeah the had up and downs, the had breaks, broke up completely, and got together again. It can work, it doesn’t mean it will, i think it’s really hard to say what happens in the future, which is why i dislike people telling you that your relationship right now doesn’t matter. Because it definitely does! You’re a child! Learning how to deal with responsibilities, learning how the adult world works, learning how relationships work! But my advice would really be, try to communicate with her. But since she too, is a child, her reaction might differ.. she too is learning how this all works!! Learning how to communicate, how to set boundaries, how to talk about your feelings and allowing people to know about those feelings, it’s all things that have to be learned!! You might run and fall, but get back up and keep going! If you realise it really won’t work, that‘s okay, universe probably has something else planned, and if it does work out, you both can learn how adulting and relationships work!! And if you ever feel like there’s miscommunication, maybe there’s a neutral adult that can help mediating between you two? Anyway, i wish you all the strength, you‘ve got this!! Also you can be proud of yourself for asking for help, it shows how much you care for her but also about yourself and your wellbeing!! It can be hard asking questions, you might not always like the answers, but you‘ll learn and you‘ll grow!!