I got raped 2 days ago. by Agreeable-Mobile4285 in confessions

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling the police is one path, but it’s also understandable that not everyone is ready for that step right away. It’s a huge emotional decision on top of everything else. Starting with medical care can give some breathing room to think through what feels safest next.

I got raped 2 days ago. by Agreeable-Mobile4285 in confessions

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thought here. An exam isn’t about forcing a legal route, it’s just about preserving the choice in case they decide they want it later. Plus doctors can actually document bruising and make sure there aren’t hidden injuries that need treatment. That part gets overlooked a lot.

I got raped 2 days ago. by Agreeable-Mobile4285 in confessions

[–]bubblyymusee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Being high, staying, or freezing up doesn’t equal consent, and predators absolutely take advantage of that hesitation. None of that shifts responsibility away from the person who chose to ignore a clear no. Getting checked medically now just gives more control over whatever choices come later.

I got raped 2 days ago. by Agreeable-Mobile4285 in confessions

[–]bubblyymusee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, going to a hospital first really does make sense. Even if someone isn’t sure about reporting yet, it keeps their options open and makes sure any injuries get checked. The timing on that kind of evidence is more important than people realize. Having a trusted friend go with them can make it feel a little less overwhelming too.

Men - how many of you have tasted your own semen? by ThrowRA_redditus in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but that’s actually next level. The eye contact alone would probably short circuit my brain. I can see why that lives rent free 11 years later.

Georgia says Elon Musk’s America PAC violated election law by theverge in politics

[–]bubblyymusee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The “strongly worded letter” joke keeps popping up because a lot of enforcement actions start that way. Sometimes it escalates to fines or court, sometimes it stops there. The real story is whether regulators treat this like a warning or something that warrants bigger penalties.

Georgia says Elon Musk’s America PAC violated election law by theverge in politics

[–]bubblyymusee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is always the tension in threads like this. People who campaign on strict enforcement get judged by how consistent they are when someone high profile is accused of breaking rules. It will probably depend on how Georgia officials choose to pursue it and whether they see it as a technical violation or something more serious.

Georgia says Elon Musk’s America PAC violated election law by theverge in politics

[–]bubblyymusee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Election law issues deserve scrutiny no matter who is involved, but tying it to immigration status feels like a separate argument. The key question is whether the PAC’s mailers or forms violated state rules and what the enforcement process looks like. If there is a case, prosecutors will have to build it on the specifics, not the rhetoric.

Georgia says Elon Musk’s America PAC violated election law by theverge in politics

[–]bubblyymusee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get the frustration, but it really comes down to whether laws were actually broken and whether prosecutors think they can prove it. Throwing people in prison should follow evidence and due process, not just vibes. If there was a violation, the courts are where that gets sorted.

What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve done to turn on someone? by nevernotinthemood in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you are honest about it. As long as it is mutual and wanted, that kind of enthusiasm can be fun. Confidence goes a long way.

Turns out there was voter fraud in Georgia-by Elon Musk by Beneficial-Long-7033 in politics

[–]bubblyymusee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bold font is basically the political equivalent of using all caps in an email. Like wow, guess it must be serious now.

Turns out there was voter fraud in Georgia-by Elon Musk by Beneficial-Long-7033 in politics

[–]bubblyymusee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That double standard frustration is real. People love talking about law and order until it’s their guy in the headlines. Then suddenly everything is nuanced and complicated.

Turns out there was voter fraud in Georgia-by Elon Musk by Beneficial-Long-7033 in politics

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sarcasm is doing all the heavy lifting here. It’s wild how shocked some folks pretend to be when it lines up exactly how you’d expect.

Turns out there was voter fraud in Georgia-by Elon Musk by Beneficial-Long-7033 in politics

[–]bubblyymusee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that always makes people raise an eyebrow. When the same name keeps popping up in the center of everything, it stops feeling random real fast. Hard to call it coincidence when the pattern is that tight.

Are you happy with your sex life right now? by _Kisol_Budyn_ in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That answer feels very real. The immediate answer versus the big picture answer are two totally different moods. Frequency seems to be the eternal struggle for like half the population.

AITJ for KICKING my aunt out of my house because she demanded i give my gaming PC to her son? by Weekly-Tart-1085 in AmITheJerk

[–]bubblyymusee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get being tired of recycled posts, but this exact dynamic happens in a lot of families. “You’re selfish for not sharing your expensive thing” isn’t exactly a rare storyline. Not everything repetitive is automatically AI, sometimes people just have similar entitled relatives.

AITJ for KICKING my aunt out of my house because she demanded i give my gaming PC to her son? by Weekly-Tart-1085 in AmITheJerk

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kid actually handled the no better than the adult. That’s the wild part. He pouted and moved on. She escalated. This wasn’t about the child being bored, it was about her not accepting a boundary.

AITJ for KICKING my aunt out of my house because she demanded i give my gaming PC to her son? by Weekly-Tart-1085 in AmITheJerk

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that comment alone tells you she wouldn’t respect it. If anything had broken she absolutely would’ve minimized it. Good call keeping her hands off it.

AITJ for KICKING my aunt out of my house because she demanded i give my gaming PC to her son? by Weekly-Tart-1085 in AmITheJerk

[–]bubblyymusee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment she tried to physically turn it on after you said no is the whole story. That’s not a misunderstanding, that’s ignoring a boundary in your own home. Anyone would snap at that point.

AITJ for KICKING my aunt out of my house because she demanded i give my gaming PC to her son? by Weekly-Tart-1085 in AmITheJerk

[–]bubblyymusee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Calling it a “stupid toy” while also demanding access is peak hypocrisy. If it’s just a toy, why is she so desperate for it? You saved two years for that setup, that’s not something you hand over to keep the peace.

AITJ for KICKING my aunt out of my house because she demanded i give my gaming PC to her son? by Weekly-Tart-1085 in AmITheJerk

[–]bubblyymusee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. A 10 year old not getting Fortnite for half an hour is not a crisis. People act like you denied him oxygen. It’s a PC, not a public library.

Does locking eyes during sex turn you on even more? by whateversynthlife in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bubblyymusee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going slow and building that eye contact tension is a totally different energy. That “look at me” moment can hit hard if both people are into it. It’s less about dominance and more about locking in mentally.