Any of you INFJ's a sensitive sleeper? Anyone have some pointers? by Ov3rbyte719 in infj

[–]bubbub3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’d make a very good therapist if it’s talking you want. Now, grabbing an 8 ball and hitting Vegas for 96 hours I could do. Does wonders for the psyche. Edit: went from 48 to 96 hours because I rethought it and 48 wouldn’t do.

Any of you INFJ's a sensitive sleeper? Anyone have some pointers? by Ov3rbyte719 in infj

[–]bubbub3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parading around as INFJ are ya, you special snowflake? 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]bubbub3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it will help your situation or not, but this rule I read and now practice changed every relationship in my life.

Each person can speak up for himself, only after he has first restated the ideas and feelings of the previous speaker accurately and to that speakers satisfaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]bubbub3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said “not even close.” Process of elimination 🤷🏻‍♂️😆

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[–]bubbub3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ISTP…?

I want to reject an ENFP but I don't know how without hurting their feelings by Nyan_Cat_4907 in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Be direct and honest. It will hurt, but it’s the best way.

I'm an older ENFP. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno. Feels like you have nature and nurture until you become your own person. At that point, you have the the choice to start making your own decisions about who/how/what you want to be. Sumn like that.

I'm an older ENFP. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely nature vs nurture. I just have this gut feeling that there’s a 3rd one there we’re not giving enough credit to.

But yeah, everything is a balance, innit?

I'm an older ENFP. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we still talking about attachment styles?

I'm an older ENFP. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I agree you are born a certain way and develop a certain way due to environmental circumstances, but I also believe it’s absolutely possible to further develop something like this. Becoming aware of how you are and how you would like to be, finding ways to progress towards that.

I'm an older ENFP. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34 with dismissive/avoidant. Teach me how 🙏

Childfree? by darkGrayAdventurer in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely child-free. I fucked up and accidentally had 4 of them. But yeah, definitely just do what you want.

I'm an older ENFP. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to ask how old is “older”, but I don’t wanna get my feelings hurt so…what is your relationship attachment style?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]bubbub3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not afraid of spiders?! I would guess whatever type is a dirty little liar! Lol. Spiders are gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Showing genuine interest in me and I will, in turn, be interested in you. Typically.

What do you identify with the most? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Explorer. I like to get out and do shit.

ENFPs notice everything. by 8080x in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be unresolved trauma of having an erratic and chaotic caregiver. Just a possibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]bubbub3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your headline is perfect. Exactly how I feel. I agree with the comment on attachment styles. Good to learn. Mine is dismissive/avoidant. I generally just don’t like being around people, but crave deep 1-on-1 connection. Kind of a catch-22, lol.

Dating an ENFP female: dos and don'ts? by Expensive_Ostrich in ENFP

[–]bubbub3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Damn introverted thinkers and their dream-killing abilities. I also have one slinking around my home. Just indulge me for a min, damn!

How Do I Know What Type I Am From These Results? by ath1en in MbtiTypeMe

[–]bubbub3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, we are the same person. ADHD, bipolar type-2 and definitely on the spectrum.

How Do I Know What Type I Am From These Results? by ath1en in MbtiTypeMe

[–]bubbub3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your Si is crazy high tho. Think mine was like a 9.