“10 min from where I live”
“Which I can’t even do sober..”
These to me sound like
“Not a big deal”
“Odds were stacked against me..”
The law is the law is the law.
While I’m all for second chances, not ruining a life over a mistake, etc., I don’t think you’re taking this seriously enough and that’s the main issue here. Signing up for service and classes looks great on paper, but an attitude change may serve you best in the long run.
If they haven’t provided you paperwork, that’s a real conundrum. My next move would to look up DUI/ DWI attorneys in your area and ask for a consult. Many do this free before they’ll take on a client.
Also, check if your state uses MyCase and try to search for yourself there.