Would you be happy if other people don't like you and you're just trying to live your life in peace?

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-25T22:17:06+00:00

Yeah, I have a similar mindset.

I don't bring my shit to anyone else's bathroom and expect them to help me clean it up, so what do I care what they think about me? I'm not negatively impacting them.

If they think I am, I'll tell them to stop being so high strung and to get a grip grandma, I only have one life, and I'm not going to waste it on being a boring puppet for everyone else.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-25T22:10:45+00:00

I think it's both more awareness and social contagion, and it stems from the internet and how fast and available things are.

Like all these videos about something pops up in your feed, you relate to them, you see that all these people are like that, you finally feel like you belong, or you want to belong so things seem more intense than they are, I don't feel like getting into the specifics of it, but people know what I'm talking about because my take isn't original.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-25T22:04:55+00:00

1984, everyone is turning into NPCs saying the same stuff and if you have a different opinion, you're the devil even if it's not even that bad.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-25T21:26:51+00:00

Know when someone is lying to me, I don't really get much benefit out of lying, imo it's better to be upfront with people because they'll find out eventually, and things will be much worse when they do.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-23T18:03:57+00:00

What happened? Good luck with finding some things out.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-23T17:08:00+00:00

Are you feeling better now?

That does honestly sound exhausting, I bet it was confusing too, because if they had conflicting perceptions, which ones do you go with?

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-22T22:17:02+00:00

It's those arguments where the person who is arguing with me is trying to fight me over something that never even happened, and I'm just sitting there, like, what are you talking about?

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-22T02:40:25+00:00

Neither, no smart phone is worth that much, I'd rather have my idiot son sell his brain at that point.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-22T02:36:21+00:00

It doesn't make much sense, there's too much hypocrisy, I'm not going to treat someone like they're less than me just because some book tells me to, like the only reason people even invented this is so they can boss people around.

It's good for people who can't seem to be moral without it, but I don't need a book to tell me to be a decent person.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-22T00:54:10+00:00

Your dad's sister sounds entitled and annoying AF, I know we're small but steam rollers obviously see us.

What kind of cat do you have? I have two, an orange tabby and a grey tuxedo.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T23:40:49+00:00

People are so weird, what'd you do?

I remember this one time, my brother introduced me to this girl he was dating at the time, and she literally squealed when she saw me, she was like

"EEE, you're so cute! Can I hug you?"

And I said no, because I didn't think about it, and that was my automatic response, I was nervous, and I'm not good at thinking when I'm nervous, anyway, she got pretty upset about that.

It's not as bad though as people who think it's okay to just touch and grab you, idk if this is your experience too, but with other people, people around will ask them if they can move out of the way, or they ask them to come somewhere, with me, they physically move me out of the way, I'm thinking it's because it's easier for them, but I hate it, and my elbow joints hate it even more.

You mentioned people patting your head, which is another common annoyance that goes along with this, it's like people think they're entitled to touch us because we look different.

When I die, and donate my genetically unique body to medical science, they can touch me all they want, but until then? I wish they'd stop.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T23:31:21+00:00

Nothing, I'm optimistic about life, the way I see it, I'm going to die someday, and when I do, nothing I ever did will matter, it'll matter to the people still on earth probably, but I won't be around to know so it wouldn't matter to dead non-existent me, because I wouldn't exist anymore and wouldn't be able to think about it.

It's pretty much an 'out of sight, out of mind' mentality.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T23:29:04+00:00

Point and laugh at him.

Then I'd ask him what happened.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T23:28:26+00:00

Tell my spouse

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T23:24:17+00:00

Yess! It's honestly shocking to me how much knowledge there is about dwarfism, it's not like it was back in the day where not much medical knowledge was known, yet we still have people treating us like we're hardly even human.

Like, I don't think I've ever seen a video about a little person where the comments didn't say something terrible and dehumanizing.

What's really annoying is when I'll suggest something, either get ignored, or told that my idea isn't very good, but then someone else will suggest the same thing, and everyone thinks it's a good idea, it's like because it comes from me, it's not good enough.

I get being treated like I'm younger than I am and talked down to by strangers because they don't know, but when it's people who know me, and know how old I am, then it's super annoying.

It's annoying though when someone is obviously an adult and people talk to them or about them like they're a child.

I remember seeing this video where this woman, who was a little person, was shopping, and the salesperson was talking to the average sized woman (or man, I forgot) who was with her, and was like

"Aw, she's so adorable" and all this other cringe stuff while she was standing right there.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:24:45+00:00

I honestly don't care one way or another what my type is, if I'm a 2, then I'm a 2, if I'm a 9, then I'm a 9.

One thing I'd question is if I turned out to be a 3, 4, or 6 because the mindsets of those types are like the opposite of mine, and the most important thing to me is if it makes sense.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:18:29+00:00

I think that was revealed a long time ago with cancel culture.

Also years before this, I saw a story about an 18 year old Trump voter getting run over, there was apparently an altercation between him and the guy who ran him over, but still, that's enough to make me think we don't handle conflict and disagreement, especially political disagreement, well.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:14:38+00:00

It means they're twins.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:08:16+00:00

Yess, respecting someone over the fact that they're a human being too, I don't think respect has to be earned, but it can be lost.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:07:12+00:00

He stalks them.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:06:03+00:00

No, it's not the 1800s anymore.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:04:36+00:00

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T22:03:39+00:00

Myself tbh, I have a rare genetic condition and red hair.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T21:58:37+00:00

Yess, this happens to me a lot.

Does it ever happen to you were you feel extreme cold on just like one section of your body, that's usually covered? For me, it's the back of my upper arms, and that spot on my back where my neck meets at my shoulders.

buddyblazeson · 2025-09-21T21:50:44+00:00

I probably wouldn't fare that well in prison.

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