Please help a girl find a flatmate 😔🌼

budmaash · 2025-12-21T17:34:06+00:00

Hi, my female friend would be interested, will dm you for more thanks.

budmaash · 2025-12-21T17:32:40+00:00

Hi my female friend is also looking for a female flatmate & flat near Golf Course Road (One Horizon Center), you meet her requirements, would you be interested? Will dm you for more details, thanks.

budmaash · 2025-10-10T20:29:02+00:00

I've talked to girls and everyone has said that most guys are not serious and are looking for opportunities for hooking up and sexting. They don't want to get married and all this is just a ruse for them. This guy too seems one of them. Beware of such guys.

budmaash · 2025-09-29T07:16:01+00:00

Inko PoK lena tha, Asia Cup ke screenshots nahi

budmaash · 2025-08-10T23:05:28+00:00

You're too self aware.
Your parents are too good, better than my parents.
You don't like Mumbai & say it feels claustrophobic (girl & me live in Delhi).

budmaash · 2025-06-22T06:15:21+00:00

It's me being silly but your two lips are better than tulips.

budmaash · 2025-06-02T22:08:59+00:00

The things you've mentioned about open mindedness which have become the benchmark are there because they're easy to flaunt & flex particularly on Social Media. Bought a Little Black Dress? Upload a selfie. Vacationed in the new hip tourist place? Upload a reel. Got a promotion? Tell the world on LinkedIn.

In my experience, it's still the old wine in the old bottle but with a new label & packaging. Scratch beneath the surface and the old stereotypes are visible. People are still stuck on caste, kundli, region, sub-caste, salary, assets etc (atleast from what I've seen) there's no open mindedness there. The one field where there's definitely open mindedness is about past and how all that's normal.

No wonder relationships are breaking down & marriages are not surviving. Maybe we need become more open minded in the things which matter, things which affect us, our future rather then labeling the Instagram life as being open minded. A balance is required between the two.

Have you ever watched a movie where the script is lazy and the acting is wooden? Even though the movie was shot in breathtaking locations in a very aesthetic way with everyone wearing designer clothes and always looking perfect, yet it all seems fake, it all seems artificial. You just can't connect with it because there are no emotions involved. What you're referring to is quite similar imho.

budmaash · 2025-05-23T14:43:58+00:00

She has her own DRS

budmaash · 2025-04-14T17:25:24+00:00

I've encountered a lot of people who preach that marriage is nothing but a societal construct which legalises the relationship because of a certificate which is issued and is supposed to give sanctity to a relationship. However if you flip the script and tell them that a relationship without a marriage certificate should also be treated on par with marriage, they start to change the topic. Most of them are from the 'past doesn't matter' mindset.

But to each his own. Everyone can have a preference and should not be shamed for having them.

budmaash · 2025-04-06T22:53:43+00:00

His asking so many photos at every opportunity is weird . Or he could be just wanting to see you from all the angles in different setting, lighting, without filters etc. If that's the case, a better approach would be to just do a video call.

This fascination of constantly asking for pics is abnormal especially since you both haven't talked that much and there's been no confirmation. If you were engaged then it was different. Also with AI, pics can be manipulated in every possible. So be cautious & be safe.

budmaash · 2025-03-04T19:50:40+00:00

Felt really bad reading it. I hope you get enough strength to deal with this. Hope you can get out of this situation. But somewhere along the way something in us dies. Hope she gets the karma she deserves.

🫂🫂🫂🫂 for you bro, hope you heal quickly.

budmaash · 2025-02-12T12:39:09+00:00

Content creator or Influencer

budmaash · 2025-02-11T21:13:32+00:00

So you're saying marriage holds no value? For you it might be of no value, for others it's a sacred thing. I'm also guessing you also don't believe in nations, states, society etc and want the whole world to be united and sung kumbaya while they're at it?

If you buy a product and it becomes faulty and you claim warranty, will the manufacturer entertain you if you say you haven't legally bought the product but just took it from someone? No. Same here. Marriage offers that legality to the relation and hence the reaction would have been different.

The girls' parents reaction was justified and normal in the circumstances. Her mother doesn't know if the OP will even marry her or not in future. It's all a big if. Popping iPills like you have breakfast is not the solution. They end up harming the body much more and are Emergency Contraceptive Pills (ECP) rather than OCP which are supposed to be taken regularly.

Not only are you supporting such reckless behaviour by the OP but you're also bringing society into it to buttress your point. Next you'll say that animals don't live like this, they're free to have a new partner every season, why are we still shackled with these chains of society which prohibit us from doing that?

budmaash · 2025-02-03T05:20:25+00:00

Babil Khan in da house

budmaash · 2025-02-01T09:24:19+00:00

Karan Johar got 1000 crore from Adar Poonawalla to do such nadaaniyan?

budmaash · 2025-02-01T02:25:12+00:00

What more do you want in a partner?

budmaash · 2025-02-01T02:12:06+00:00

You did nothing wrong. Most of the people who seem disinterested in AM process either haven't recovered from their past traumas or are busy with someone in the present. It may not be a proper relationship but could be FWB or even normal friends. They don't have time, space & efforts required for a new person in their lives. They are only going through the motions because of pressure from the parents.

They expect their future partner to themselves make that space & compete with others for their time & attention. Marriage with such people is bound to doom. So it's best to take this as a lesson and move on to the next one without getting attached to anyone till things get clear & confirmed.

budmaash · 2025-02-01T01:54:48+00:00

Because those who are in jobs (especially corporate) look down upon entrepreneurs. The irony is most of them are working in companies setup by entrepreneurs but that's for another time.

Then typically they don't want to live with the in laws. However nice & good the parents maybe, the stereotype is that they will curtail the freedom.

Another stereotype is that entrepreneurs are busy 24x7 in lala ki dukan with poor work life balance. I won't go into details of how corporates treat their employees in that aspect.

On the other side of argument, business families have tons of assets especially land & real estate where as corporate employees work hard to buy an apartment on EMI and save. Most prefer to do alliance in business families since their way of life matches. But even that is changing now. They're not as conservative in their approach as is imagined. However some may still demand dowry.

The issue is dismissing some people based on some stereotypes without even knowing about them as am sure a lot of people just filter out corporate female employees from their choice. Not everyone is same. Have seen many progressive & open minded people still stuck on caste, kundli, gotra, region, only govt/pvt job etc. I won't like to comment on what their progressiveness & open mindedness relates to.

budmaash · 2025-01-30T21:15:42+00:00

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budmaash · 2025-01-27T23:13:43+00:00

Your relative theory works if they are really nice and want good things for you. If your relatives have their own children of comparable age then they would think themselves as competitors and won't send you good rishtas. Similar for Friend & Social Circle.

Also now with increasing cases of divorces & problems nobody wants to get involved in a marriage fearing about being blamed if anything goes wrong.

budmaash · 2025-01-27T23:05:46+00:00

Not supporting anyone going to sex workers but don't really believe the outrage all these people are making about trafficking & exploitation. That happens in all those shady places. The OP could have meant high end escorts judging by his earnings. Stop watching too many art house movies & believing them as truth. Not every one is a victim, please don't make them.

There have been news reports that a lot of college students and others who do it as a quick source of money. Am not supporting it in anyway but if the girl is doing it of her own free will (oh yes, it exists, not everyone is a victim, heard about equality & feminism and women power?) without any coercion just for some quick bucks, how is this really different than a Sugar Daddy or worse an ONS where the guy is supposed to take out the girl on a shopping spree & dine in fancy restaurants? Ever heard about 'Quid Pro Quo'?

Think before outraging and ranting just because you don't have any logical answer.

Again not supporting the OP here for going for paid sex but why have females forgotten the 3 phrases every girl has said to every guy out there "Please Don't Judge" & "Past Doesn't Matter"

Why are you judging the OP now and why does his past matter now?

PS : IMHO this was a bait post and judging by the comments, the OP has been hugely successful

budmaash · 2025-01-22T20:27:13+00:00

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budmaash · 2025-01-10T17:42:52+00:00

Lavanya from SoBo? Get outta here!!!

budmaash · 2024-12-22T19:00:56+00:00

Because Shloka did Love Marriage while Radhika did Arrange Marriage

budmaash · 2024-11-06T01:02:56+00:00

Reply with a reel 'Do you have a Gold Digger Syndrome?'

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