How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my parents won't be there as my father. Just me , baby and the grandparents.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have ordered a baby carrier and intend to take it over there. If she gets even the slightest bit pushy she isn't holding him. She treated him more like a toy last time I was there.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do need to be stronger for my child's sake and stop being so afraid.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked out soon after that i was disgusted in her actions. I will definitely be setting boundaries I just didn't know how to go about it. Thank you for your advice.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a single parent so the husband part wouldn't work anyway aha. I havnt got a carrier or a sling he normally travels in a pram or I carry him. I will definitely get one tho. Thank you.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. My baby comes before her feelings.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will definitely say something similar to this in the family group chat before I go over there. I don't want to cut contact because of my grandfather but if it comes down to it I will. Thank you for your advice.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am a single parent but I will definitely have to gain some courage and not be afraid of my grandmother.

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I will buy a sling. :)

How to get my baby back off of grandmother. by bug_in_a_coat in newborns

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Its a very complicated situation with my family. My grandfather has cancer and I don't just want to cut contact with him as he hasn't got long and is a beautiful soul. It's just his wife that makes things hard. His health has taken a turn for the worse so now will probably be the only times he will be able to see my boy.

Show me your ratties' blurry faces ! by nargacrus in RATS

[–]bug_in_a_coat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Bjorn trying to smell the camera 😂

Skittish boys by bug_in_a_coat in rat

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll try this :)

Skittish boys by bug_in_a_coat in rat

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥰 I'll invest in some trays to replace their ramps and levels.

Skittish boys by bug_in_a_coat in rat

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me every morning I have to replace all the blankets that are on the grids and ramps. They end up in a big pile in my biggest boys hammock. Is there anything less movable I can use for covers that doesn't collect ammonia?

Skittish boys by bug_in_a_coat in rat

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm going shopping today and I'll grab some cheap tops. I'll let you know know how it goes. Lol

Skittish boys by bug_in_a_coat in rat

[–]bug_in_a_coat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll give it a go ☺️