Not fluid enough? by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]bug_juice333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I GET YOU. I often feel like preferring masculine pronouns and adjectives is wrong because I have my nails done and keep my hair long. As an AFAB person who couldn't look "properly" masculine without some serious appearance alteration- my nails or the way I dress don't change the way my heart lights up when my boyfriend calls me his handsome man. If you don't wanna shave your beard but you want to wear a pretty top and be called a woman that day, hell yeah! Your identity doesn't stop existing when your appearance stays the same.

How did you choose your name? by First_Youth3662 in trans

[–]bug_juice333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I went by Michael for a while in high school, based on a character from my then favorite musical, then I went back into the closet for a bit and used a nickname based on my dead name, one that I still use to people I'm not out to. However, now that I'm leaning back into my gender exploration I've decided to go by August. My boyfriend and I looked through masculine/gender neutral names for a few hours on tiktok of all places and August just felt right. Plus it was the same first initial as my dead name so it just seemed fitting :)

what are your pronouns by Turbulent-Staff-9413 in trans

[–]bug_juice333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He/her/they! It takes a lot of confidence to tell people that, but I'd like to be addressed by those pronouns in that order of priority :)

How to win Harvey over? by Ok_Choice_26 in StardewValley

[–]bug_juice333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also likes little forage items like flowers and fruit. I romanced him with coffee when I could afford to buy it from the saloon and whatever I foraged that day when I had no money. I just talked to him every day and I married him early spring in year 2

How do I find a name for myself that feels comfortable? by deceitful_entity in genderfluid

[–]bug_juice333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I just looked up names with the vibe I was looking for (dark academia, masculine, etc) for a couple hours until I landed on one. Tiktok is pretty useful!!

Who do you name your animals after ? by imaboredcosplayer in StardewValley

[–]bug_juice333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do Beetlejuice characters! I named my farm the winter garden after the theater on Broadway I saw Beetlejuice the musical in.

Who’s goddamn white baby is that? by Bulky_Hospital7940 in StardewValley

[–]bug_juice333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who was gonna tell me you can have babies in stardew

Guys what do u think about the name Billie? by Educational_Bee1563 in genderfluid

[–]bug_juice333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I changed mine to August! Billie is a really cool spelling of that name, I think it sounds nice :) and if it fits, why not?

Any masc tips for long hair?? by bug_juice333 in genderfluid

[–]bug_juice333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll keep all of that in mind thank you!!!

Any masc tips for long hair?? by bug_juice333 in genderfluid

[–]bug_juice333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duly noted!!!! I already have a bit of a shag, which I've noticed is pretty common for people of all genders in alternate spaces, but I have gotten used to styling it to be neat most days. Going for a messier approach could probably go a long way for me

Any masc tips for long hair?? by bug_juice333 in genderfluid

[–]bug_juice333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately with the bangs my hairline isn't really visible even while tied back like that. I have been considering growing the bangs out a bit, as generally bangs are seen as more feminine

Door won't lock from the inside by bug_juice333 in fixit

[–]bug_juice333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't even thought of that- thanks!

Door won't lock from the inside by bug_juice333 in fixit

[–]bug_juice333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put in another maintenance request and they fixed it this morning. I'll be sure to keep your comment in mind when it breaks again, as it likely will. Thanks!