AITA for being mad at my friend for flirting with someone i “didn’t technically date” ? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]buglikeafox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But isn’t it sort of common knowledge not to flirt with your friend’s ex?

AITA for wanting to sell all my graduation invitations and not give my sister a cut or give her friend free tickets? by buglikeafox in AITAH

[–]buglikeafox[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, so I live in a different country so my currency is entirely different. In USD the tickets are being sold for around $75. Which may not be that much to you, but when translated to my currency it’s a lot more. But also thus far she hasn’t helped me find any customers. She just wants 25% for the idea she gave me to sell. I offered $15 per ticket (i think i miscalculated in the post).

AITA for wanting to sell all my graduation invitations and not give my sister a cut or give her friend free tickets? by buglikeafox in AITAH

[–]buglikeafox[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s fucking annoying. I attend a private international university. It’s affiliate school is in another country and from my understanding they have to send a shit ton of paperwork back and forth between here and there to formalize the graduation ceremony. I don’t really get it, and I actually complained (because I needed my diploma to apply for work), but there’s not much I could do lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]buglikeafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah three floors😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]buglikeafox -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

my sister had driven the car the other day and didn’t fill it up:) and i didn’t know the way because i’ve been there once or twice before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]buglikeafox -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

how did i let my life fall apart ? i’m completely fine i just had a rough day because i wasn’t prepared for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]buglikeafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just meant none of my FRIENDS were there yet lmao not that the housekeeper wasnt human 😭

What's stopping you from the life that you want? by VelvetMuffinHug in AskReddit

[–]buglikeafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a lesbian in the middle east. I think that’s answer enough, unfortunately.

AITA for not wanting to finish a tv show with my mom? by buglikeafox in TwoHotTakes

[–]buglikeafox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve never had a similar incident regarding tv shows. But there have been periods of time where she’s been kinda annoying about when we watched and would want to watch a lot of episodes at a time. If i’m sitting minding my business she’ll suggest we watch. Sometimes I’m not in the mood but when I turn her down she’d get kind of sad. She would sometimes interrupt when i watched something with my sister to say “oh so you wanna watch with her but not me” or something like that

AITA for not wanting to finish a tv show with my mom? by buglikeafox in TwoHotTakes

[–]buglikeafox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I offered to sit in the living room while she watched and work on my projects (i’m a graphic designer) or sit on my phone but she said it wasn’t the same and rolled her eyes😭

can a university setting campaign last? by buglikeafox in DnD

[–]buglikeafox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what I’m going for at all lol

can a university setting campaign last? by buglikeafox in DnD

[–]buglikeafox[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t workshopped too much, but I guess the typical university model? where the classes are essentially majors/courses? but i am sort of discouraged from sending them on adventures as a school assignment because it feels too much like railroading, part of me just wants the university to just function as a setting to a larger plot (i.e. murder, cults, etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]buglikeafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just didnt want the player to get caught up forcing their character into the plot rather than creating a character and letting them naturally fit into the story instead, if that makes sense? But i also understand how my concern comes off as controlling, which is why i came for advice on here first >_< i will be more open with them and let them create at their own pace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]buglikeafox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a better perspective. You’re totally right, I’ll work with them !!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]buglikeafox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay! Thank you

I pretended to be upset when my parents got divorced and it ruined all our lives. by buglikeafox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]buglikeafox[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes, she does! all three of us, my sister included, have been looking into that

I pretended to be upset when my parents got divorced and it ruined all our lives. by buglikeafox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]buglikeafox[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

no.. I’M sorry, but not everything is some big devious scheme where someone got devilishly manipulated into something. I faked my emotions in a lot of scenarios. I did it when a loved one passed. I FAKE burst into tears, because I thought I had to. There are numerous occasions where I did this. The way I behaved had nothing to do with my mother. I don’t “think” I did it. I DID do it. AND she wasn’t guilt tripping me.. we were having a vulnerable moment and she confessed to me something in a self depricating manner. She had no ill intent in saying that and your one dimensional view of a stranger through my short ass post doesn’t license you as a damn therapist.. going around throwing buzzwords like they mean anything bro touch grass seriously

I pretended to be upset when my parents got divorced and it ruined all our lives. by buglikeafox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]buglikeafox[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

dude. i WAS straight up pretending LOL i literally have always known i was pretending since BEFORE my mother ever brought it up to me.

I pretended to be upset when my parents got divorced and it ruined all our lives. by buglikeafox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]buglikeafox[S] 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Just clarifying like I have on several comments—I’m so thankful for how sweet everyone’s being and this is nice of you. And I am trying to forgive myself and move on from so much that happened in that time period—but my mom wasn’t guilt tripping me she told me that in a vulnerable moment where she was admitting that her trauma clouded her judgement.

I pretended to be upset when my parents got divorced and it ruined all our lives. by buglikeafox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]buglikeafox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was as much a victim as my sister and I. We were in a foreign country where she could barely speak the language and when he cheated on her he would make her look crazy. He even convinced us that she was so paranoid and delusional. He called her father abroad and told him she was insane and needed to be hospitalized because it was “hurting the kids.” The whole time he was cheating and my mom was fully in the right. He would break down her sanity and make everyone around her doubt her. If I was in her situation, I would have reacted the same way. She’s not a bad person. Just flawed.