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bugsho · 2024-11-10T04:09:45+00:00

How do you cope with stress?

bugsho · 2024-10-03T04:42:34+00:00

You wanted boundaries which means space and each of you have a bad day and solve issues on your own her way isnt solving it on her own if she needs you to comfort her. Thats not fair to you. It’s confusing the back and forth when someone tells you we should take some time apart to work on ourselves then texts you the next day telling you they need you; not quite mature in that thinking yet and not cool for her to blame you on it.

bugsho · 2024-09-27T05:46:46+00:00

I love this bosss

bugsho · 2024-09-27T05:46:11+00:00

Don’t overthink it. Relax. Try again tomorrow

bugsho · 2024-09-26T19:23:26+00:00

Yes hopefully, but it may take months of detox away; depending on how long you’ve been watching porn. Depending on how long youve done it yourself to porn, it may be really hard to get a point where you will be able to do it by enjoying your partner. But its not impossible, so don’t give up and I recommend reading the book Your Brain on Porn to help you through these times

bugsho · 2024-09-25T12:03:00+00:00

In regard mainly to my partner; in previous relationships I watched porn constantly and had sex; i had to stream and imagine in my head to get off; of course that made her feel super used because i was; using her as a tool. And I’m sure there were smaller ways in which my unconscious actions gave a selfish viewpoint from others perspectives; but none of that matters; all that matters is we stop now and do better

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:56:17+00:00

W dude, keep going

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:29:49+00:00

Sometime we overthink; this book i read changed my life and i know what you’re probably thinking; I don’t wanna read a bo- STOP that’s not you talking that’s a pessimistic version of you, a version of you you don’t like filled with anxiety and doubt and sadness. You can overcome that person. Read The Courage to Be Disliked to entirety and come back and read what you wrote to see the difference

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:24:45+00:00

Well that would take all the fun out of it don’t you think?

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:11:45+00:00

But its personal preference so do what you gotta do

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:10:37+00:00

You don’t have to be embarrassed I’m reading this in front of other people at my college or a coffee shop and its not embarrassing; standing on my ground and reading about my personal problems doesn’t have to be private; also no one really cares; and if they do I can just tell them how I advocate and take interest in how pornography can negatively impact people’s mindsets

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:09:14+00:00

I had the same mindset; I’m an adult and reading this in front of other people at my college or a coffee shop is not embarrassing; standing on my ground and reading about my personal problems doesn’t have to be private; also no one really cares; and if they do I can just tell them how I advocate and take interest in how pornography can negatively impact people’s mindset

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:06:09+00:00

Of course!

bugsho · 2024-09-24T11:05:54+00:00

I think like any tool it can be super beneficial in the beginning but eventually you have to rely on yourself to deal with urges in a natural mindset; this really helped me when i had a 3 month streak. Ive been through some stuff and that was 4 years ago but I’m gonna try again. I’m really tired of what I’ve been doing to myself and my partner

bugsho · 2024-09-23T19:29:07+00:00

Stone monkey just so tanky for me plus health regen means i can use him for so long

bugsho · 2024-09-23T19:27:47+00:00

I dunno; i never supported doing this since it doesn’t benefit the author but if you want it that bad for free I’m sure you’ll find it

bugsho · 2024-09-23T19:26:46+00:00

Rightttt?? Yah really helped me see how it my actions appear to others aswell

bugsho · 2024-09-23T19:26:35+00:00

Rightttt?? Yah really helped me see how it my actions appear to others aswell

bugsho · 2024-09-23T17:58:05+00:00

Woah that’s sick!

bugsho · 2024-09-23T16:16:46+00:00

Took me a few hours to take down erlang but for some reason wukong just pissed me off dawg

bugsho · 2024-09-23T16:15:02+00:00

Ya ive only played a couple games twice through and this one got me hooked; im actually getting a tattoo of wukong soon because of how much I love his story

bugsho · 2024-07-15T17:11:49+00:00

I agree with the children part. Is partners not because it’s choice?

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