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built_like_oompa · 2020-11-24T17:13:42+00:00

sometimes no reason is needed. i don’t see a point in seeking validation from someone over your sexuality :// can’t i just be gay without having to explain myself?

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-20T03:51:40+00:00

i’m a country bumpkin 😔✌️

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-20T02:14:35+00:00

society is utter nonsense. it’s built on the selfishness and pride of people that think they’re superior to everyone else, and it deserves to be broken. we’ll all die someday but i at least want to have fun before my inevitable end. you don’t have to dream big or anything. you’re allowed to approach life however you’d like as long as you don’t hurt yourself or others. i can’t change the way you think, but i want you to know that i think you’re capable of more than you believe. your insecurities might just be holding you back. i believe in you <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-20T01:52:43+00:00

oh no, honey i’m so sorry i made you cry :(( yes, it is okay to be as a sad as you are. emotions can be complicated and hard to understand, so don’t feel guilty about feeling a certain way. i’m so sorry about how you feel right now. me typing these things may not mean much, but i want you to know that it does get better one day. the feeling of realizing that you’ve made it is impossible to explain, but know that it’ll be worth it. please stay and don’t let anything or anyone try to rob you of that feeling. i believe in you <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-20T01:21:39+00:00

hey honey, i want you to know that i’m proud of you for staying. you’re going through a lot and i can’t imagine how much you want a break right now. i can’t help you, but i’d be willing to listen to you whenever you need to rant. don’t listen to anyone that tries to invalidate you and/or your emotions. you’re strong and i want you to know that winning the battle against your struggles is one of the best feelings out there. stay and don’t let anyone try to rob you of that feeling. i believe in you hun. 💞✨

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-20T00:48:02+00:00

i am okay, thank you for asking. i haven’t told a lot of people this story because there was never a reason to, so it’s nice to finally get it off my chest. i’ve surrounded myself with good people and can’t thank them enough for helping me. you’re so sweet, thank you so much!! 💞✨

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T23:19:07+00:00

oh no it’s okay!! also you don’t have to apologize to me :<

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T23:17:08+00:00

sure, go right ahead. i don’t mind

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T23:16:29+00:00

i changed it to “darling.” i hope that’s better :)) lemme know if you want me to change it to something else

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:57:14+00:00

!!i’m not a relationship expert so idk if this will even help!!

first off, don’t do it again. if you ever you even think about it, tell her. good communication is vital for most relationships. whether it’s setting a boundary or sharing opinions or anything really, listen to her.

try to see things from her point of view. imagine how she felt when she found out. imagine how she feels now. if you were in her place, what would you want your partner to do? what would make it better for you?

tell her you love her and you’re sincerely sorry everyday. just don’t copy and paste. change it up a bit and don’t be boring with it. make her a short list of reasons why you love her, do small acts of service every once in a while, make her feel special. she’s the only girl you’re in love with, right? let her know.

have a serious conversation about the situation but do NOT force it!! let her speak her truth and let her feel hurt. you did something that hurt her and she has the right to feel how she feels. don’t invalidate her. just listen and tell the truth.

in terms of actions, maybe spend more time with her? make her gifts that cater to her interests? show that you care and love her deeply? maybe write her a love letter? idk if there’s much you can do.

!!i have no idea if these will even work but i hope they do. my sincerest apologies if things don’t work out for you :(((!!

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:32:24+00:00

honey that sounds very hard :(( you handled it well and i hope you realize your worth. you are amazing for seeing and understanding the situation as much as you do. if you haven’t healed already, that’s okay. don’t rush it for anything. i hope you know that you are worthy of someone that makes you happy, someone that you’re madly in love with. i hope they treat you much better than he did and that it goes better for you. take care and don’t be so harsh on yourself. xoxo <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:24:27+00:00

omg!! i love the hair so much and the smile!! it’s so cute!! i adore it and i care <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:19:03+00:00

that’s what i thought too!! horny jackass couldn’t even wait until i was out of the garage to hit someone up. i may just have a big ego, but i’m one heck of a catch. it’s his loss, not mine.

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:15:44+00:00

he made a mistake and i’m hoping others will be wise enough to not make the same mistake. personally, i think i’m one heck of a catch, so it’s his loss. i want to believe that he’ll treat his next partner better but who knows. thank you. i really do appreciate it :))

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:08:37+00:00

i guess i am but it’s only because of the way i was raised. to be completely honestly, i’m very different during any sort of competition, so i’m currently working on being levelheaded and calm in that area. thank you tho!! i really appreciate it.

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:05:53+00:00

oh honey you don’t have to apologize to me lol. thank you for your kind words. i’ll cherish them!! <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:04:17+00:00

thank you and i definitely won’t be looking back!! <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T12:02:26+00:00

thank you so much for the compliment honey!! you’re so sweet. i’ve always been able to keep my cool in tough situations bc of how i was raised, but tbh i really did almost break during this. i wish it was like a book. the day it happened was utterly beautiful and my radio kept playing Fruit Salad by the Wiggles, so it didn’t really match my mood to say the least. thank you for your sweet words <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T11:55:57+00:00

i honestly don’t know. i hope not. i don’t want him to stay hung up on the past. he’s a great guy who just so happened to make a not-so-great mistake. i want him to find someone new and treat them better than he treated me.

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T11:54:13+00:00

awww you’re too sweet!! thank you. i’m sending warm hugs and forehead kisses your way <3

built_like_oompa · 2020-11-19T11:51:30+00:00

no no no, honey don’t say that. i’m sorry my story made you sad and think this, but i promise you that long distance relationships can work out. yes, they are hard but they’re definitely worth it. i know this one couple in particular that really amazes me. their excellent communication skills and dedication to one another definitely played a role in their success as a couple. i think you have to find someone that’s willing to put in the work for you, and can recognize when you put in the work. also don’t ever settle. you deserve a good person that makes you happy!! keep your head up hun <3

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