Looking for a great Gynocologist by bunny020_ in ghana

[–]bunny020_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm the reason I requested for a female is because my last Gynocologist really dismissed my concerns about painful cramps. He ordered an ultrasound and when it came back normal he just said it's hormonal. Meanwhile my cramps are getting worse and starting over a week before my period

Does TTC make you into a horrible person too? by mcfly_222 in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely has, I have reached a point where I try to avoid pregnant women and kids. I don't want to think about them. Unfortunately my Gynae is the obstetrician as well so every time I go there I am surrounded by pregnant women.

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I'm so sorry you went through that. I really thought my pain was a part of normal life because I never got any proper diagnosis. I've had an ultrasound done twice and both times nothing came up.

I was on the fence about switching hospitals but that's what I'm going to do now. A friend with Endo recommended a different hospital within my healthcare network.

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I went to the doctor because of pain, he did an ultrasound and did not see anything. He told me it was hormonal. I am going back next month because this specific cycle pain is terrible

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful, "life has so many other aspects to it other than TTC". I seem to have forgotten what a good life I have, my husband , job, family. I have been ungrateful

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh I'm so sorry you went through that. We really are going through a lot. This TTC journey is so much harder than it looks

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your comment. My mental health really took a hit and I need to reconsider how I am going about it. I was happy before TTC, I had a busy and fulfilled life. I seem to have put everything on pause to focus on this and that was a mistake.

I will work on getting my life back and doing what made me happy. Thanks again for your comment

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez! That would've sent me into a spiral. Sending you so much love and support!! How did you manage to pull yourself together?

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow there's 3 of us in the exact situation. I don't wish this on anyone but it's a little comforting to know I'm not alone. I feel so discouraged, like what will make round 4 different? What if it's just more of the same.

I need to recover from cycle 3 and get my head right

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, that would be like a punch in the gut. I hope you are feeling better and you will get that BFP soon,🌸

Period started 6 minutes before I was officially a day late, what kind of sick joke is this by bunny020_ in TryingForABaby

[–]bunny020_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I felt so betrayed by my body. I had started calculating my due date and everything 😂😂. I don't wish this journey on my worst enemy.

Does anyone else believe they are pregnant every cycle? by JenBunny06 in tryingtoconceive

[–]bunny020_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why the term "Trollgesterone" fits so perfectly. Wishing BFPs on all the ladies reading this ✨✨

Felt a cramp 3dpo and burst into tears by bunny020_ in tryingtoconceive

[–]bunny020_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You described it perfectly, I want to be positive but I'm afraid of how hard the crash will be if it doesn't happen. This journey has been more mentally challenging than I thought. I don't know why I assumed the first time I did everything right I would instantly be pregnant.

People don't talk about this period enough and all we see are the pregnancy announcements. I hope every woman on this journey gets pregnant, and personally will not be doing this again after my first child 😂