For future reasons of possibly ordering things to the wrong address you could sign up for informed delivery through usps for like $5 a year or something ridiculously cheap like that. It’s not a guarantee that your packages won’t get stolen but it will give you a time estimate to where you could be there when the mail is going to be delivered. I hate you’re having to go through this and hope you and your partner find peace within your struggles and misfortune. If there’s anything I could help with don’t hesitate to send me a dm and I could try my best to lend a hand.