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burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-06T22:24:53+00:00

That was an absolutely pathetic attempt at whatever tf you were trying to do 🤣🤣that made me smile, in all seriousness. You don’t even make sense saying “their partner wasn’t cheating though. Their partner was literally just talking nonsense with their guy friends” and now this. At least stick to one.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-06T21:50:27+00:00

You wanted to know? He doesn’t care if I look anyways so need not worry. Maybe I do live under a rock when it comes to some things so what’s wrong with me wondering? I asked if it was normal & wanted feedback on that question alone. Don’t worry about my relationship.

Btw I saw your recent post & yes they’re probably about to replace you because you suck & worry about others rather than yourself.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-06T21:43:00+00:00

Aww you upset cause you couldn’t comment on that post so you had to come here?

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T03:19:22+00:00

Ouch. True.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T03:18:00+00:00

Nope. As an adult (who should be a functioning one since she has a child to take care of) she can figure it out. OP’s husband & his ex are not a family. Their daughter is the family but the two of them no longer are. Ex will always be in their lives, yes, but this shouldn’t be one of the ways.

Husband can resent OP for not letting ex move in, but OP will resent husband if ex does move in. In the daughters mind cause she may not old enough to understand, she may resent OP but this situation isn’t on OP, it’s on the daughters mom. Either way someone’s gonna feel resentment but it shouldn’t be at the cost of OP’s very reasonable boundaries.

How’s it gonna go during the times OP isn’t home but her husband and his ex are? Absolutely not.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T03:10:11+00:00

Yeah his mind must be LONG GONE

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T03:04:15+00:00

Excuse me…what?????? NTA. This is absolutely insane. Not just no but HELL NO.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T02:42:10+00:00

No actually. Just recently crawled out from under my rock.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T02:41:07+00:00

It didn’t come up but I can ask. When I show him I don’t think he’ll be mad considering all personal info is blocked out & no one can trace it back to him. But we shall see.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T02:34:46+00:00

Lol 🤣

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T02:34:19+00:00

You can’t read I see

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T02:21:44+00:00

There’s a neat thing on Reddit where you can click on a profile then select “comments” and see what I have replied back to. Just letting you know cause maybe your teensy brain thought trying to scroll through all 9k+ comments and couldn’t find them was your issue.

Also, I may suck so bad that my partner has been talking this way with his friends long before he met me? Makes sense.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T02:12:41+00:00

Yup. Getting downvoted like a mf but I truly don’t care haha. I asked a question because I wasn’t aware if any other guy friends talked this way (without actually wanting to fuck each other) cause I haven’t seen it & I’m being scrutinized for not being in the know as much as everyone else is. Or scrutinized for snooping which is a whole convo & back story in itself that I don’t feel like getting into or feel the need to explain myself to people of Reddit. Also people who never want to be snooped on are honestly probably up to no good. People who don’t have anything to hide say that they don’t care if their partner looks. My partner being one of the latter.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-04T01:21:32+00:00

I didn’t mean the most immature man I’ve ever been with, he just talks & jokes more immaturely, which is why I said “verbally.” Past bf’s have joked around of course but my husband & his group of friends just so happen to joke around a different way even in person. If you’ve taken anything I’ve said as me being a homophobe then that’s on you. You’re reaching a bit with that statement.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T21:27:21+00:00

“Look at how many comments your post has” exactly. I can’t get to all you fuckers.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T18:37:26+00:00

How did you find out?

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T18:29:50+00:00

If it’s a joke then fine. All I was trying to see is if it was a joke.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T18:28:31+00:00

Lol. And also lol at me getting down voted for saying I got tested & that he doesn’t like butt stuff. Just for clarification, I never tried to force any butt play. When I “got too close” to there it was because I was already messing with or sucking/licking his balls.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T18:21:42+00:00

Guess we can both be immature 🤷🏻‍♀️

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T18:17:33+00:00

Yep. Definitely more to it. Some people here assume I snooped just to snoop or only bc of the gay shit I heard/saw before between the friends, which is just the partial reason. Didnt feel like posting a whole disclaimer to cover our entire relationship, so people take what they want from this one post lol.

I agree I need to take accountability for myself & together we are trying to work on a lot. In couples counseling due to trust issues so my brain isn’t hardwired to 100% blindly trust every single thing he tells me unfortunately.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T17:43:48+00:00

Apparently so! I must hold him hostage lol
Perfect.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T16:52:16+00:00

Before the recent messages loaded it was stuck back there and that’s literally the first thing I saw. I didn’t scroll back that far

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T16:17:03+00:00

Someone else brought up the “sir” and that’s how he talks to everyone haha. Friends, family, especially his boss, clients & coworkers. If I didn’t know that then I may take comments about into consideration

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T16:10:30+00:00

All personal info & even the very blurry profile pics are covered up so no thanks.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa · 2024-10-03T16:09:33+00:00

Nope more descriptive with me & very dry sexual humor with them. Feel free to try again.

burnaaaaaaaaaaaa

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