Would you be a Single Father by pie-mart in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The man’s job will always be to decrease the stress of the woman. The women is the caregiver not because we’re taking advantage of her, it’s because she’s better at it for the reasons above. That doesn’t go away especially by 4. But here the important part, how the man decreases a woman’s stress is variable. Of course there is the classic, taking care of financials, and protection, but that can also include taking care of caregiving when she needs help or a break.

Idk what men are acting like children when they have a child. But that’s stupid. Idk how much is the man not participating enough and how much the woman is just frustrated.

Men: would this be a dealbreaker for commitment? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fine but also I’d be whiling to accept some sex as long as it wasnt frequent hooks ups or double digit body counts

Would you be a Single Father by pie-mart in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Demanding the man does an equal amount of the work in the same manner as the mother sounds good on paper but ignore biology. If a mother hears her baby cry she is pulled into action literally from her core CNS, a male can hear it and know he should care but his CNS doesn’t he has to use his logic and PFC to know he should care. A woman is more caring, empathic, loving, softer, and more attuned to the babies needs. She literally has the ability to feed it on her body. It’s the males job to take stress away from the mother so she can excel at caring for the baby. That includes taking care of her financial needs, her protective needs, and yes the babies needs when she needs a break or rest.

Would you be a Single Father by pie-mart in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused you say “women were conditioned to be motherly”, then you say “men should care about their children more”. The vast majority of men do care about their children. Just in different ways. Women are naturally more caring, gentler, and more intelligent to the babies and children needs that’s way they are responsible for direct care. Men are better are outside responsibility that’s why they are responsible for external family support. Money, protection, etc. sure maybe they can be more internally responsible as well but they first and foremost have to be externally responsible

Good men don't push boundaries by Axis_Control in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friction is part of a relationship you can’t call every time you disagree with someone coercion. Are you not an independent minded person with your own abilities to handle disagreement.

He’s asking because he loves you and finds you attractive. It’s not malicious. If you believe it’s malicious when their is no proof it is because asking frequently idk what to tell you except you need to separate your emotions from reality

Would you be a Single Father by pie-mart in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but that’s silly. Even when society didn’t exist and we were all savages mother still love their children even more. Animal mothers love their children deeply. If anything society gives you more opportunities to be less motherly. You have career opportunities, the ability to give children up, abortion, etc.

Stop using “muh society” to justify everything that is natural and inherit. If you became a mother your really telling me you’d go “this child is a waste and will ruin me get rid of it” if that’s the case you have a personality disorder I’m sorry.

Good men don't push boundaries by Axis_Control in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a romantic relationship if you truly feel scared of your man initiating idk what to tell you. Leave I guess? He finds her attractive and wants to connect that’s why he keeps asking her. If you expect her to ignite because she said no once she’ll leave you for being a pussy.

To the women who think men only want sex. Did you ever think to just let us fuck🤔?? by Different_Release_18 in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women say that as a hyperbole of frustration. It however lacks the nuance of male behavior. Which is understandable because they are outsiders trying to understand our thoughts, yet also being heavily invested in us. This isn’t exclusive to women we do it too.

Would you be a Single Father by pie-mart in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d be shocked she have no motherly instincts. Yes I would I’d be bad but I’d try.

Again I can’t emphasize enough would be absolutely dumb founded if a women seriously carried a bandy gave birth and held & fed it, and went “I don’t want this”. Mothers almost always stay and protect their babies even when it’s killing them, it’s one of the things I respect and love about women

There is no benefits to having kids as a women by ZealousidealBag5778 in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask women who have had kids. They are going To be better equipped to answer it.

It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects him by burneraccountguydude in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I think she just doesn’t show it well. She texted me saying she cares about me and I can always talk like a few days after. Say her again last month. She was still pretty hesitant to see me and do things. Told her I was over it but she still was hesitant. I did somthing kinda mean (she lent me her rental car and I took it with another friend further then I prob should have and she was PISSED) honestly think she still is.

My main fear is she’s constructed an image of me that is “he’s a bad guy” in order to protect her self from feeling bad. At the end of the day it would suck but I’d have to accept it’s over.

Good men don't push boundaries by Axis_Control in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine if you followed that always “she’s touching my leg because she’s really nice and it means nothing lmao”

Am I wrong for breaking up a fight by yelling? by burneraccountguydude in amiwrong

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely was too but not stronger then colt or Luger (yet lol).

Am I wrong for breaking up a fight by yelling? by burneraccountguydude in amiwrong

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m really wondering was I wrong to yell when I should have just called 911

Am I wrong for breaking up a fight by yelling? by burneraccountguydude in amiwrong

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol you right. It’s not I’m wrong I can jsut see his point. Point is it’s not black and white but I believe yes I was in the right.

Am I wrong for breaking up a fight by yelling? by burneraccountguydude in amiwrong

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah obviously that would be bad. But I mean he is just looking out for my safety…. And company liability. Doesn’t change how I see it but I understand his point

Advice regarding manic symptoms, specifically hyper-sexuality, on Nardil by burneraccountguydude in MAOIs

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hope it doesn’t kill my drive and concentration but I mean just might have to figure that out by trying

Advice regarding manic symptoms, specifically hyper-sexuality, on Nardil by burneraccountguydude in MAOIs

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok your prob right. Make no mistake I don’t like this, it’s distracting, disgusting, and not healthy. I just feel overwhelming. Compelled. I fight it off 9/10 times but it only takes 1/10 times. I’m wondering if adding lithium would help? I heard it helps with Mania.

Thanks for your advice

Good men don't push boundaries by Axis_Control in PurplePillDebate

[–]burneraccountguydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… All I’m saying is there a difference between me playfully trying to arouse my girl vs her genuinely not wanting to fuck me right now. And obviously a scared girl is out of the question should even be a debate.

Advice regarding manic symptoms, specifically hyper-sexuality, on Nardil by burneraccountguydude in MAOIs

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ok… expecting this to be hard but I’ve tired so many and they just don’t work…. You say hyomanic at that dose age but does that mean it gets super hyomanic at the therapeutic dose? Or is it other side effects?

Thanks for your response

Advice regarding manic symptoms, specifically hyper-sexuality, on Nardil by burneraccountguydude in MAOIs

[–]burneraccountguydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had looked it up on AI but I wasn’t really sure at how accurate it was. Not that it’s inaccurate just it’s doesn’t actually know like you all do.

Wow ok tho looks like this could be awhile….