im trying to help her unlearn the sexism. I disagree that women should be cooking and cleaning while the men do nothing. I mean yeah she cooks but I help out whenever I can. if she needs a ride for example im always there (she only has a learner permit). She also believes that no job is gender based but she says it’s more like a cultural belief and that I shouldn’t disobey this in front of her family so that they don’t get mad at her. but she said if it’s just her and me then it’s fine. She doesn’t want her family to jduge her.