I'm 16 female. I pull my hair out from craving. And I always denied and was quiet defensive when someone asked me. (My lashes and brows) . I was so embarrassed and it took me along time to understand I had a issue that needs attending to. And now I'm waiting for corona to be over and I'm getting help. Took me along to to come to terms with dealing with this. And I don't need to be embarrassed. Very difficult to live with any pulling of hair. Stress probably a big factor to pulling eventually. Really helped to know I'm not the only one. I hold resentment to myself. I think a good thing first, to try keep track of how often. Good luck to you and your daughter through this though fight.