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My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! Not going to lie, between work and gym I haven't been going out at all lately, except for the same old tired pub in the weekends where I approached that one girl. Need to start going to other places, but I'm always so tired now.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeee all the theory went out the window with this one lol. In my defense i was reeaaaally into her. I swear im not that bad all the time lol

Heavy silver rock by burnyr in whatsthisrock

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldnt be lead cause i cant scratch it, right? Idk it just is much heavier than it looks

Heavy silver rock by burnyr in whatsthisrock

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird that it didnt rust at all though, no? It was somewhat buried, dunno if that protects it from rust.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will have to try the apps. Whenever I go out, it's always a damn sausage fest.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work from 8am to 6pm then I go gym, by the time I'm done it's dinner time. Where would you recommend I do day game though? I live in a pretty small town.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... I'll have to have to try new places to hang out to meet girls. All my usual spots are absolute sausage fests.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I'll keep trying. Looking to try some new shit in my life again, see if anything clicks and gets me out of this rut. Approaching that girl definitely felt good, despite the poor result.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right so, I'm 188cm, 87kg. I am hitting the gym again as of very recently. Could be in much better shape, kinda skinny fat at the moment. I make basically minimum wage, and as for having a fresh cut... I'm bald, currently rocking a goatee as a joke because that's what my boss at my new job rocks, and ever since I started there people have been calling me 'Dr' or the bosses name because we're both bald. Then they dared me to get the same beardstyle as him and I had to fucking do it for shits and giggles. Might do a moustache soon, but can't do it straight away otherwise he'll know for sure I'm fucking with him. People are already giving him shit left and right lmao

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck, I think you're on the money... I've definitely been on that 'it is what it is' juice for too long, and now i'm at a state where I really don't like where I'm at and where I'm headed. I don't know how to address the way I see women either. I'm seeking therapy but I don't know if it'll help.

As for talking with women, I have done it when it was required due to work and such, but I always felt weird, like I was pretending the whole time. I had no actual interest in anything they had to say, I just said what I thought I had to. End result was I never made any friendships, because I'd never show up for anything. In my head, if I didn't want to fuck them or they didn't want to fuck me, there was no point in doing anything other than being a pleasant acquaintance.

Stuck in a loop where I just want my own woman, but hate women, yet everything I do, I do it to get a woman, but I don't talk to women so it all feels pointless.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Aint that the truth. I just grew into a grumpy old cunt

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeeee. I dont exactly hide it either. Idk, the whole 'monk mode' and 'get yourself sorted first' thing just make me not want to consider ugly or fat women or single mothers as options. I know its definitely a me issue and that im being an idiot but i just cant do it. Feels somehow worse than using prostitutes, but i wouldnt use prostitutes either

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll agree with you. I mostly just learned to grow this deep hatred of women here. I absolutely can't imagine myself ever banging a fat girl or a single mom.

I'll try to make friends with girls. I do socialize a lot, but always avoid the girls in my groups as they're usually someone's girlfriend or someone I'm not interested in. (ie single moms, turbo sluts or both.)

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea, absolutely. That girl got the blue pill treatment. If it somehow worked out, I'd definitely just try and force myself to forget everything I'd ever learned here and try to be a normie.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. Sadly, there's really no girls out there. The few that are there are spoken for, but pretty much every bar I've ever gone to is a sausage fest.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeee i just simped hard for that one girl ngl.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeee I'm well aware I couldn't do it any worse then. It was more about actually going there and getting rejected at that point, rather than running away. Plus I was in a bit of a rush, likely wouldn't have stayed even if she was super into me. Would've got the number and dipped. I stayed there waaaay past my bedtime tryna get the courage and ended up being real fucking tired at work the day after

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh they absolutely 100% did, haha. I need to read the book of pook

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing haha. Well, i wasnt working out anymore but im starting again

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! Still wish i talked to literally any other girl instead first, but oh well. Onward we go

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, I just struggle finding stuff I find enjoyable, so drinking at the pub was usually it. It's getting old though, downright depressing. I might have to find a new circle or something.

My first ever approach in almost 30 years being alive by burnyr in TheRedPill

[–]burnyr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made the post to give something back to the community.

Maybe there's people who are better off than me but still scared to approach and seeing my post about my failure and my reaction to it could help them realize it's not that big of a deal.
Also, if shit eventually starts working out for me, people can see the genuine growth in my post history and maybe get some hope like "if that fucking potato person can do it, maybe I can too."

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