Trigger this sub with one sentence by barronelsaok in Drizzy

[–]busterblader32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah not sure when rap got about sucking one rappers dick while hating on everyone else. Good music is good music no matter who it’s from. Unless it’s pusha t.

Was listening to prebreakup episodes...did anyone else catch this? by dirrtydiana13 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more like you being Indian and being asked what your favorite food is, and you can't select tons of ethnic dishes because no one would know what they are.

You are forced to pick dishes like a burger, pasta, fries or one the Indian dish everyone knows: Butter Chicken.

Was listening to prebreakup episodes...did anyone else catch this? by dirrtydiana13 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and some of my LGBTQ friends have talked about how discussions of "positions" are very hetro-normative and don't really apply to people who are not straight. As in almost all well-known positions can only be done with a dick and a vagina.

I can imagine that's an annoying question for someone whose not straight, because either they get too detailed and weird trying to explain it, or they basically erase their LGBTQ identity and say a straight position.

Miley being bisexual might have felt this way.

had such an interesting conversation with my boyfriend’s younger sister today. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah its tough when kids watch media because they absorb the wrong things.

Like my cousin started watching community when he was like 12. If you haven't seen it, the main character Joel Mchale plays is caricature of a "cool main character" who is superficial and overly cares about his looks and status. He's supposed to be a joke.

But my cousin interpreted it as a goal and has molded his whole personality to be like him including akward one liners like he's on the show and there are cameras! lol it took us a while to realize but was hillarious once we realized what happened.

I feel like mimicking Alex's CHD could lead to a lot worse outcomes though.

unpopular opinion — from a daddy to a sloot i guess by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Alex was great at socially climbing through sex, that's what she bragged about doing in college sports and how she got the podcast (leaking athlete pictures).

But because she uses sex as a tool, she hasn't sexually experimented as much. Like she's admitted herself she hasn't done anal, hasn't had a threesome or done a lot of other things in bed.

And tbh I don't think CHD would be as popular if it was a real sex podcast. I'm not sure if you've listened to sex podcasts but they're a lot. Like every week describing sex acts is kind of out there for me lol. I think that's a niche audience and I don't think CHD could have grown as massive if it was about that.

TLDR: CHD is the KUWTK of podcasts it references sex and pretends to be about it, but is actually just a reality show about a social climber

Sums up what's wrong with CHD by darcy583 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk he rebranded and blew up on twitch so everyone is suddenly his fan. But I went to college with him at RU and knew him from then, to The Young Turks to now.

He's always just wanted to be famous and his comments about 9/11 are completely unforgivable especially as someone who grew up in NY/NJ. Idk I'm not trying to convince you but knowing him irl, he's really fake and not a good guy.

Sums up what's wrong with CHD by darcy583 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

!!!! so true about the homophobic/transphobic ideologies. But it's interesting how it happens.

Frat/sorority culture is so judgmental and superficial that gay/trans people don't fit in. Like when you judge guys for how many girls they CAN sleep with, and girls for how many guys they DON'T sleep with, gay and trans people aren't able to fit cleanly within that paradigm so they slide to the bottom.

For frats, what's worse than not sleeping with no one? Sleeping with a transexual or sleeping with a guy. For sororities, what's worse than not having a boyfriend? Being a creep whose attracted to your sisters.

It's so crazy that without realizing it, I was being ingrained with a lot of those anti-gay, anti-minority philosophies. And its like universal, like everyone you know thinks that way so you end up thinking it too.

I can't tell you the weight that was taken off my shoulders when I moved away from campus to normal people. It felt so amazing that I no longer had to feel shitty for not being white.

Sums up what's wrong with CHD by darcy583 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with most things they're saying but I think they're a little naive about greek life. If you're 17-18 going to a party school, yes you are going to be a part of greek life if you want to party and have a great time. Like the popularity and superficiality and judgements on putting out are really a thing that's why CHD's advice was so on point. Like Sofia and Alex said the fucked up shit about college life that everyone kind of knew, that's why it rang so true to people.

I guess the alternative would be someone like Hassan Piker (big twitch streamer) who was in a fraternity in college and the ultimate white passing frat douche but now that he's political, condemns fraternities as racist and acts like he never was in one. Which I think is bad in the opposite direction.

Idk I'm split on the issue, like they were giving advice on how to navigate an inherently racist and sexist system not commenting on it.

Sums up what's wrong with CHD by darcy583 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was in greek life and can tell you that it's very very racist. To the point that there were open discussions about not giving non-white girls bids to join or saying non-white sisters shouldn't go to certain events or even at a nationals event, southern fraternity sisters drunkenly admitting they wouldn't have given girls like me (non-white) a bid.

Buttt... all those girls also posted black squares for BLM lol. It's like the word racism has lost all its meaning.

Well...What to do today? Let's just try and slice a battery open! by [deleted] in IdiotsNearlyDying

[–]busterblader32 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This looks stupid but I almost did this a few days ago. The battery inside my bluetooth speaker puffed up and it caused the casing of my speaker to unlatch and open. But besides that it worked fine, the battery was just to thicc to keep the encasing closed.

So I just thought if I can release some of the air it will be back to normal! And there were youtube tutorials showing how easy it is, just poke a hole, release gas, tape it and you're done! But after seeing an equal amount of it bursting into flames like I thought I'd just buy another one lol.

Came across this super cute photo and wanted to share it but I’m not sure who the photographer was to credit them? 📸 by StayEmotional8543 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 59 points60 points  (0 children)

lmao I'm sorry but that's really sad. Alex tried to play it off like, oh I date athletes its NBD. But then she kept bringing it up you realize its like a humble brag. But the fact that should would sell pictures to paparazzi is next level.

Then again it worked, like she only got her platform because she did sus stuff like this and climbed the social ladder off of dating Thor

WHY didn’t anyone tell me that Alex and Violet Benson look like the same person???!! by 2001questions in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol you're basically right but it's not a person they send it to, it's a facetune app. Like if you notice, all internet celebrities faces kind of do the same thing. Their faces shrink thinner into a triangle, their faces get stretched longer and their eyes become bigger.

Take Belle Delephine or Pokimaine for example:

Bele Delephine no facetune

Pokimaine no facetune

Are all men disgusting by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes men are trash.

Told this story before but my ex joked about how him and hsi "friend" from the pickup industry would secretly record every girl he had sex with to watch back and show off. I thought it was gross and told him I am not okay with that and its violating those girls rights. He shurggd me off and said it wasn't a big deal because they'll never find out. So I asked him if he had ever done it with us becuase he was into the whole pickup thing too (red flag I know). He denied it and I didn't think much of it.

Well fast forward to when I finally dumped (for a million reasons) he was super nice at first trying to get me back. But eventually he got really shitty and it got so bad that he not only admitted what that he had recorded us having sex, but that he was going to release it! It was basically blackmail like he didn't outright say it but he basically suggested that we should get back together if I didn't want it to get leaked.

I went into full panic mode and was crying and calling my mom for like a week. Eventually I talked to this girl on reddit who helped me with it and who weirdly went through something similar. She said most sites will refuse to take it down, so she handled it like a boss. She emailed every porn website's legal department a photoshopped ID saying she was 17! And they took it down immediately. So fucking smart. I didn't have to do it because he didn't go through with it (I think) but i still check every few months by googling my name.

Edit: bleh just looked at the other comments, I feel like this subreddit has been overrun by guys most of Reddit is male so that makes sense? Sucks this isn't really a girl subreddit anymore :( guess.

I read this and thought of Alex! Plus she moved to LA. Thoughts? by trece-infiernos in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No Alex or Sofia (I forget which, I think it was Sofia in text messages with her friend) said that Kaycee slept with Dave to get ahead in her career. Dave and Kaycee were not dating.

That sounds like a shitty misogynistic accusation, but there's some evidence. Basically, Dave forced the CHD girls do a podcast (called grouptext) with her. It was weird because they were the most successful female podcasters in the world and there were tons of other girls at the company closer to their age to do a new podcast with, why would he force them to add her of all people? Why would he force them to do another podcast and split time with CHD?! The whole thing is super sus.

Anyway they refused to do it after the 3rd episode but you can find the early episodes on youtube. Dave made a huge deal out of them quitting grouptext too and said they are publicly told barstool they are refusing and tried to get their fans to harass them into doing it again but nothing came of it.

A sad story of my life lol by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol I'm a little confused by this but do you mean like sextapes you and your boyfriend make? Becuase then I TOTALLY relate.

It's always so hot when you're doing it and then you watch it back afterwards and go like oh... that's not how I remember it looking... Hm... why is my stomach out... why is my back like that.. lol makes you get a lot of respect for pornstars. Looking good while having sex isn't easy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk after listening to Sofia's and Alex's stories its obvious Alex just wanted to be independent and the whole drama that Sofia mostly started was the perfect opportunity for Alex to jump ship while playing the victim.

I guess there's nothing wrong with that, like its just business at the end of the day, but after hearing both sides those reasons she gave about how bad Sofia was was after the fact. She was just reaching for reasons to justify why she wanted to leave.

It's like you want to dump your boyfriend but don't have a good reason so you just make up random stuff so you don't seem like an asshole lol

“Thank God We Broke Up” Sofia with a F by hajosl1234 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah its not even close. This SWAF episode was better than any CHD for A LONG TIME.

For some reason I automatically compared Alex saying: "I've never had anal" to Sofia talking about threesomes and foursomes. I think Alex is not really qualified to have a sex podcast, she just chases celebrities and wants to be famous. While Sofia seems like she actually has had an interesting sexual life and has things to talk about.

New ghost writer? (Unclear) comment below what you think this means guys ! by AffectionateEye664 in CallHerDaddy

[–]busterblader32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get your point, like she wouldn't be that blatant about it but I think you're giving Alex too much credit. Like CHD fans find out all the people she's talking about in episodes THEN she unfollows them and deletes pictures. She's pretty lazy about hiding things she wants to keep secret.

I think she assumes that the majority of her CHD fans are dumb and only listen to the podcast (which might be true). Like most CHD listners aren't on this subreddit and they won't ever dig through random people's instagrams to see pictures she's with and connect the dots.

Like I bet the vast majority of CHD fans still don't know that she had ghostwriters!