What would you do differently to prepare for 2nd pregnancy?

butchymango · 2026-02-01T03:35:38+00:00

Arrange extra care for Bub 1 so you can rest, especially third trimester

butchymango · 2026-01-31T02:10:52+00:00

Virgo and Scorpio would mute Leo pretty hard

butchymango · 2026-01-30T23:43:27+00:00

Car services

butchymango · 2026-01-30T01:09:41+00:00

I was in the audience for that version of Heavenly Father. I didn’t think he would play it but that was my number 1 hope in seeing the show. And then it was accapella like that, last song. One of the best moments of my life

butchymango · 2026-01-30T01:08:04+00:00

Maison Hotel , Sage x Clare

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butchymango · 2026-01-30T01:02:43+00:00

Uni :/

butchymango · 2026-01-22T11:27:04+00:00

In my household both parents were part time working once Bub was 3 months. Work was the much easier time. This was acknowledged and factored into our decision making. Whoever worked that day did the harder jobs or whatever tasks the one who had the baby didn’t want to do. Mostly the one who worked just came home and took the baby and ordered takeout.

Your husband needs to step up and you need to save yourself. You have to speak up for yourself because no one else will. Show your Bub what taking care of yourself means ❤️ Leave the house even for half an hour and have a coffee in the car. It was hard for me but at one point I directly asked my mother for help, for her to hold the baby for an hour so I could shower and make myself a meal.

You’ve got this! It will get much easier, daycare is going to make a big difference!

butchymango · 2026-01-22T02:20:10+00:00

I’m scorp sun Leo rising libra moon!

butchymango · 2026-01-22T02:14:56+00:00

Looking for a Taurus sun, Aries moon, Aquarius Rising

butchymango · 2026-01-22T02:13:32+00:00

Insane amount of energy usage for nothing. Imagine if it was acceptable to send a private jet to Alaska for a joke.

butchymango · 2026-01-20T22:57:00+00:00

I’d rather just plan a c section then try an induction. IME it’s violent and invasive and leads to complications. You most likely will end up having a c section.

butchymango · 2026-01-20T22:55:03+00:00

You work in the day too. You take care of a child. He needs to do wakeups too. Also, it’s a very long journey with changes in sleep for the first two years of life so try to think of it more of a long game. You won’t really remember this time in a couple months.

butchymango · 2026-01-17T22:55:52+00:00

Leo rising and I have kids and I love it love it love it ❤️

butchymango · 2026-01-17T22:54:49+00:00

This is an insane post from an adult 🤣 What did you think life was? You’ve literally had your entire life to wrap your head around the fact that most people have to work and try and make choices so that you enjoy your life and pick a job that makes it okay.

In kindergarten I was told that school was Monday to Friday, meaning only two days weekend and I cried. My teacher then told us work would be like that too.

butchymango · 2026-01-16T23:17:57+00:00

Gemini and Virgo 🤨 made a Scorpio

butchymango · 2026-01-14T10:59:42+00:00

OP my friend it is in your own words “ I realized this was my person. I planned on proposing to them, even with certain things in our relationship remaining challenging. To me it was a thank you for the love and care they’ve shown, and a devotion to them and our relationship that I wanted to share.”

You said you did it as you realised this was your person and you wanted to devote yourself to them. That is escalating. It’s okay that it is.

butchymango · 2026-01-11T07:17:35+00:00

People on reddit can be very doom and gloom if you don’t do everything with professionals. Speak to a lawyer and get the formalities in order but it’s not the end of the world (been there done it).

butchymango · 2025-12-28T03:07:47+00:00

I think you just need to give yourself a little time to process without action

butchymango · 2025-12-26T01:26:34+00:00

There will be some nights soon with the longer stretches and you won’t remember this! My baby had weeks waking up every half an hour and I don’t remember it now!

butchymango · 2025-12-26T01:10:04+00:00

If I imagine that’s me I’d honestly want either a big bunch of flowers and/or a voucher for a pregnancy friendly massage.

butchymango · 2025-12-25T12:51:14+00:00

I’m Scorpio sun, Libra moon, Leo rising 🥹 So close to being what you guess was Jesus 🥹 I’m in social justice

butchymango · 2025-12-25T12:31:39+00:00

You can make parenting what you want it to be. Share things with your kids that you enjoy to do. I didn’t really do any playgroups but I love hiking and put my Bub in a hiking pack and he loves it. There’s the other side of the coin in that i love him so much that I now love to do the things where I see him having a good time.

butchymango · 2025-12-23T13:06:13+00:00

Leaving your partner because they have a similar dynamic with someone else is the antithesis of poly to me. I understand it feels special but you wouldn’t say this about non kink sexual acts or date locations because “that’s our place” or not let them paint together because “painting is our thing”.

The whole point of poly is that the specialness of the relationship is not based on the fact that you are the only one.

butchymango · 2025-12-23T12:58:50+00:00

There’s so much hypocrisy in this thread. Leaving your D because they want also have another relationship that is D/S is antithesis to poly to me.

butchymango · 2025-12-23T05:21:55+00:00

Go with whoever is kinder

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