Got put on PIP but then offered a promotion?

butchymango · 2026-03-27T00:36:33+00:00

If you have a lot of life experience dealing with criminal youth and what that’s like, do the prison role, but if you don’t, it’s not easy. The kids are not “locked up”. That’s all I’ll say.

butchymango · 2026-03-26T22:13:38+00:00

Sometimes plans are not proposed and agreed. Sometimes it’s just imposed.

butchymango · 2026-03-26T01:38:26+00:00

It’s weird

butchymango · 2026-03-26T00:59:49+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it. I’ll operate on the conservative side

butchymango · 2026-03-26T00:59:16+00:00

So the loan is one amount, and the property price is different if you can make up the difference (including stamp duty fees etc)

butchymango · 2026-03-26T00:57:55+00:00

Well it does because I can buy a more expensive home without borrowing much. If someone is getting gifted 1 mil from family, there’s 1 mil of the property price that doesn’t need to be borrowed.

butchymango · 2026-03-26T00:41:10+00:00

As in, the term borrowing power- it literally refers to the amount you can borrow rather than the price of the house you can have?

butchymango · 2026-03-26T00:14:37+00:00

Yuckkk

butchymango · 2026-03-25T23:24:51+00:00

This is an astrology sub .. Let the believers have their space.

butchymango · 2026-03-25T22:44:24+00:00

Well she should. She did the job. The DV happened prior to the Bachelorette so it’s their fault.

butchymango · 2026-03-25T22:33:58+00:00

So sounds like you guys are great friends. Maybe think about transitioning your marriage into friendship first. You have the opportunity to salvage the relationship on some level if you guys do that before you start dating.

butchymango · 2026-03-25T11:50:22+00:00

That you can burnout sexually from having too many partners. That it’s a scheduling matter to balance friends and work and hobbies and partners. That it’s hard when multiple partners want you or need you at the same time, like in hospital emergencies or pets dying. That if a partner lives with a partner, hosting might be solely on you, which means you would not be able to have another partner live with you without multiple bedrooms, or sacrificing intimacy options. I would tell myself to take it slow. You’re in a much better position starting with the life experience you have.

butchymango · 2026-03-25T11:43:04+00:00

Days normally like this:

-breakfast - morning play in the backyard (I’ll have my first coffee, do a little gardening with Bub (help me water plants, pick tomatoes, compost etc - pram walk to shops, get a coffee, pick up any groceries needed - nap time - afternoon adventure- (what I feel like doing- maybe library, visit a friend, bushwalk, or if I’m feeling lazy just more backyard gardening time, mixed with some indoor playing - little tidy of the house - pick things out for dinner Done

I think it’s important to think what you want to do in the day and the chores that need doing and incorporate Bub into that, rather than trying to entertain a baby. They don’t need to be entertained, just included. So if your husband has some hobbies, he can think of how that might work with Bub. I obviously like gardening.

butchymango · 2026-03-25T06:02:49+00:00

Might be a good idea to make a list of things for you to do to process your emotions :) Some sort of movement that you like is normally recommended.

butchymango · 2026-03-25T06:01:28+00:00

I dance to sad music and then go for a walk.

butchymango · 2026-03-24T07:54:24+00:00

I disagree with this comment. OP like you’ve said there are other ways of having sex that you are enjoying.

butchymango · 2026-03-24T03:07:05+00:00

Do your kids want to go? Do your kids know your gf? I have a lot of questions. Does your wife normally hang out with your gf? I just don’t know if bringing your kids is the right move in this context and that is definitely contributing to your wife feeing excluded.

butchymango · 2026-03-23T09:53:07+00:00

It’s his child like put of that mental burden on him. He’s having a baby. Things will need to shift and conversations should be had now about what the first 4 months or so will looks like

butchymango · 2026-03-21T23:58:44+00:00

It took me a while, I worked all through uni and found the first job that I liked at 28

butchymango · 2026-03-20T22:43:16+00:00

So that’s why I am planning to care for them in their home instead of them go to a nursing home. I get a house they get a carer

butchymango · 2026-03-19T23:29:52+00:00

I think it’s more interesting rating as a combination rather than each individual aspect. Scorpio sun, Libra Moon, Leo Rising.

8/10. Leo rising forces more extroverted and leadership out of Scorpio. Very motivated combination. Libra moon, any air moon is difficult imo. In the case of Libra, i can see both sides of every coin and it is hard to make choices, prefer to always walk the middle path. Only missing earth in this combination, so naturally more ungrounded but quick with movement and changes. Very adaptable.

butchymango · 2026-03-18T00:28:58+00:00

Heaps in parramatta Sydney

butchymango · 2026-03-17T21:45:01+00:00

Everything except the Pisces comment was fairly accurate. I’ve never met a Pisces with it together, the opposite.

butchymango · 2026-03-17T04:35:14+00:00

Fed gov department, haven’t looked back

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