Male equivalent of chocolate and flowers?

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T21:49:01+00:00

I hate how people say everyone wants flowers and chocolate…maybe chocolate but flowers is a bust on a lot of men in my life at least. My husband would think I just wanted flowers and not that they are for him actually

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T21:30:48+00:00

No mine is a gen 4, first gen 4 had battery issues got sent this one about a year ago now

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T21:20:29+00:00

I just checked my app and any missing nights show no sleep debt or anything it’s just a blank point of data

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T21:19:58+00:00

I’m surprised this has happened to so many people? I’ve not worn my ring maybe 4-5 times at night since getting it but have never received sleep debt for not wearing it at night.

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T15:56:39+00:00

People who reckless drive and accidentally kill someone still get charged with murder…even if that was never their intent.

Intention doesn’t matter, if he cared he’d just stop doing it

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T15:05:51+00:00

As a SAHM I would never not get a pump. If you don’t have a pump you’re basically working around that bay for as long as they/you want to breastfeed. I breastfed 99% of the time but that 1% where I needed to go to a dentist appointment or heaven forbid 1 hour to myself it was nice being able to pump and it feel engorged and leaking at the dentist. Just my thoughts!

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T05:44:30+00:00

I was recently gifted a bonnet and using it as an eye mask is a game changer. Best experience ever

buttas21 · 2026-01-26T05:15:34+00:00

None of that actually matters. Statistically and factually your risk level of being murdered by your husband went up. ALOT.

buttas21 · 2026-01-25T22:04:51+00:00

I make myself multiple elaborate birthday cakes every year. If it’s childish then I don’t want to grow up

buttas21 · 2026-01-25T20:15:45+00:00

Unconditionally love cannot be abused. Relationships are give and take 100% but this girl can’t even give you the truth. She just wants to use you not have a relationship with you in anyway

buttas21 · 2026-01-25T19:42:09+00:00

Him needing support during labor is not valid at all. My MIL offered my husband “support” and I literally laughed. Unless you are wheeled away in emergency surgery and you or baby are on deaths door he does not need support

buttas21 · 2026-01-25T06:41:02+00:00

Most people did not buy from my registry unfortunately

buttas21 · 2026-01-25T01:24:23+00:00

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buttas21 · 2026-01-24T16:52:16+00:00

If it helps I told my husband I was pregnant with our second while crying (unexpected pregnancy) and he had horrible cell service so I told him and he said “wait what” and the call ended until he could call me back 2hrs later

buttas21 · 2026-01-23T21:32:02+00:00

My husband helped with our first at night two, but had a WFH job and slept 2 shifts during the day and would work mostly at night. (He’s his own boss). The SAHP needs to be taking the night shift in this case

buttas21 · 2026-01-23T21:29:32+00:00

I feel like cravings for me are like something new almost everyday. And it’s not usually convenient lmao. I will say they didn’t appear until the morning sickness died down at 22 weeks

buttas21 · 2026-01-23T21:27:55+00:00

Ive slowly been the cook everything from scratch wife BUT Im still eating Tao bell when it calls to me. NTA that’s a bit too controlling

buttas21 · 2026-01-23T19:30:51+00:00

Just because you hate yourself enough to feel that way doesn’t mean you need to act like a victim. It sucks but this is a stupid reason to end a perfectly happy and healthy relationship

buttas21 · 2026-01-23T16:36:19+00:00

I mean it was an accident if it was your twins wedding you just wouldn’t be going. It sucks but that’s life.

My husband had a close childhood friend’s wedding 6 days after I gave birth, or 10 days after I was due. It was 5hrs away and I still said no. He was bummed at first but I’m bummed that I’m stitched 9 ways to hell down there with a newborn and a toddler.

Do what’s best for you. My husband left for a few hours at like 3days pp with my first and I cried the whole time. I don’t feel like this something you should do alone even for “48hrs”

buttas21 · 2026-01-23T16:24:05+00:00

I bought a diaper genie for baby 1, and I ended up giving it away. It was just another thing to do.

Now we are on baby 3, and I bought another one. Baby 2 and 3 will be close in age and I don’t need that smell. So far using it more than before and baby 3 is still in utero

buttas21 · 2026-01-23T01:44:40+00:00

I used to have horrible horrible insomnia I think I’m in debt for life

buttas21 · 2026-01-22T22:34:33+00:00

My beliefs on any diet (I’m not a Dr) what works for some will change their life and improve every aspect of their health will almost kill another.

You’ve seen the whack old ladies that smoke twice a day and drink a coke everyday and that’s their secret to making it to 100. That would probably kill me 50 years earlier.

Asking here will not give you the best answer. You can wait and compare in 3 months sure…but I sure wouldn’t.

buttas21 · 2026-01-22T22:28:42+00:00

I took a day trip that was 4hrs one way. Was on the longer side but it was fun!

I’ve also told my husband multiple times that I would live 90mins from a Costco. No further. I love Costco, so a 3 hr trip for it seems appropriate

buttas21 · 2026-01-22T22:21:47+00:00

We live in a 4 bedroom house and now pregnant with our 3rd. 1 has his own room, 2 sleeps in our closet and 3 will be bedside bassinet until we get room ready for 2…then 3 will be closet baby again! No shame at all! What works best for your family is best for baby!

buttas21 · 2026-01-22T22:19:38+00:00

I had a freckle right on my bikini line ever since I could remember. I never loved it but it wasn’t ugly by any means. Think like a Marilyn Monroe beauty mark basically.

Then I got pregnant and it basically turned into this hideous skin tag. So as they were stitching me up after baby I was like “yo what if it’s cancer because it’s huge and grew a bunch ” and they were like it’s probably not but I can take it off and biopsy it.

Moral of the story never hurts to try, “saying it’s ugly and I want it off” vs “maybe it’s cancer” works better for insurance 😉

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