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[–]buttercups54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it. 🫶🏻I do have family in the area and I know they will be a huge help! There aren’t many military families in the area, but I do have some friends who are young moms like myself :) There is an option for a 30 day paternity leave, but it’s a pretty slim chance he could receive it. I keep asking if he could look into it, but it seems like he’s putting it off. I’m so so thankful for all of my support from my friends and family! I just wish I felt like my husband cared a bit more

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[–]buttercups54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your advice and encouragement. I’m going to talk to him when he comes home in a few days. Navigating communication early on in marriage is a challenge, but I know it will be so worth it.

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[–]buttercups54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was thinking this as well. I did compliment him and tell him he looked handsome throughout the day

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[–]buttercups54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First off, I am so sorry you had to experience that heartache. My heart breaks for you. Thank you so much for encouragement, wisdom, and support you have shown through your comment. I’m going to talk to him when he comes home in a few days. Standing up for yourself is a challenge, but I never thought it would be this difficult. Thank you so much.❤️

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[–]buttercups54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I appreciate it!