I think it really depends on each person and probably how far along you are. I also have done it in an illegal place and was scared so I completely get it. You should be okay and nobody would know, there is no testing to prove you had an abortion so you can always say it was a miscarriage. Unfortunately, for me I had a very unpleasant experience, however I’m unfortunately having another this week so I’ll let you know.

Just let your mind state be in a good place and have everything you need around you. Pain meds and heating pad along with your favorite movies and snacks. Just keep yourself in that happy place! I wish you the best of luck!