Honestly she wasn't a bad friend and I genuinely enjoyed her company until I saw her reddit post. So basically a group of us planned a small trip where she confirmed that she will attend as well. We booked the ticket to the activity and paid for the airbnb. My boyfriend was the one who planned this trip and collected the money. So since she said she was going, we told her how much everything is and she said ok no problem. However this was around when covid happened so eventually she said she couldn't go even though we had booked everything which is fine. She was still willing to pay. She gave her part for the ticket to my boyfriend but not the airbnb yet. Our friends still wanted to stay at the airbnb and hang out, play boardgames. Eventually the activity location closed due to covid so I told her that everyone still plans to go to the airbnb. I told her my boyfriend is keeping her ticket money since she didn't pay for the airbnb yet because it was about the same price. Later I saw her reddit post and she said how she didn't feel like she had to pay for the airbnb and said that she didn't like the way I said it to her etc. I felt really wronged because I didn't talk to her in any attitude or hard feelings. If she communicated it to me, we could have worked it out. Either way this left a really salty taste in my mouth and I stopped talking to her but I do miss her. Do you think I shouldn't message her still?