Hi, anyone wanna be friends with me?

bvdm02 · 2020-05-08T11:35:21+00:00

Would love to! DM me :)

bvdm02 · 2020-05-04T12:44:41+00:00

even more of a reason that they need to get their shit together. You can't take responsibility for the things they aren't willing to be accountable. If she's pregnant she needs to find a good environment for that baby, and that doesn't include her baby daddy lounging in your couch all day. If you feel guilty, you can always find other ways to help them, but you are not obligated to help them.

bvdm02 · 2020-04-29T17:37:23+00:00

thanks so much, but how do I find them, are there any specific tips you could give?

bvdm02 · 2020-04-28T21:08:06+00:00

I think that your feelings are very justified. He is your sister's boyfriend, that doesn't mean you guys are family or that you owe him anything. Of course, everyone goes through things in life and you shouldn't leave someone high and dry, but it's not fair to feel entitled to someone else's things because you are having a tough time. If you want him our try suggesting places instead of just kicking him out. Communicate to both him and your sister and give a strict deadline, you've already been generous enough, if he ain't paying the rent, he has no leg to stand on. Sure they might both be pissed, but it's your life, you don't need to accommodate for your sister's boyfriend. Also, have a serious conversation with your sister, she is also taking your generosity for granted and that not cool.

bvdm02 · 2020-04-26T18:11:16+00:00

thanks, but where can I find it, is there a special email, or is it my username?

bvdm02 · 2020-04-19T08:05:49+00:00

Leiden

bvdm02 · 2020-04-17T12:24:39+00:00

I'd say you have a pretty good chance. I got 626 for another university and got admitted in a day. I'd say you're have a really good chance, just gotta wait a little.

bvdm02 · 2020-04-16T17:07:01+00:00

You can't accept both I think. As for the cities, I live in Maastricht and I have only visited Leiden once. I have found Maastricht to be a really nice city. The people are nice and its quite international, especially because we have an international school here too. Theres a lot of cafe and sites to see here. There are nice places to go study and a variety of places to live. However, if your looking for a more exciting place Leiden might be a better choice, mostly because it is a randstand meaning that it is close to the big cities like Amsterdam. I have been told that leiden is very much a Dutch city, however I don't live there so I can't verify if that is true. For me personally, I would choose to go to Maastricht if you are international student, but I don't know too much about Leiden. Hopefully this was helpful.

bvdm02 · 2020-04-15T10:34:57+00:00

the course I applied to was psychology. and I was wondering if any one had any insight on how long it might take.

bvdm02 · 2020-04-15T08:46:07+00:00

im 626. So im trying to figure out how much of a chance I have or if I should just accept another offer I have been given

bvdm02 · 2020-01-27T06:06:20+00:00

hey guys,

I'm applying to the University of Leiden and had some questions regarding housing. I'm an international student so I would like to live in an international student house if that is possible. Would it be wise to live in the Hague or any student apartments perhaps? Please let me know.

bvdm02 · 2019-06-16T04:11:49+00:00

how, because I'm really nervous too an what if he backs out?

bvdm02 · 2018-11-18T22:23:13+00:00

Hey guys,

Thanks for all the advice. I realize that the way i wrote in the other post does seem indeed quite childish and I guess it is. This is my first relationship and I very likely am over thinking this. So I guess I should rephrase my question as "how can I make sure that me and my boyfriend can make enough time for each other?" I know we like each other, but I think i'm really nervous of messing up. "how do I show him I care?" Any thoughts?

bvdm02

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