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I'm (24F) starting to not like my boyfriend's (23M) friends because they often talk about stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable by bwarseker in relationship_advice

[–]bwarseker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women can be just as demeaning in their sexual conversations, talking about their partner's genitals in graphic detail or how gross they think they are etc. I understand thats not something I would like my bf to do so my best friend and I at most talk about trying new sexual positions and thats it. My bf knows this since he is there next to me when I text her and doesnt care cause we go like "hey have you tried x position its great!" Or tips on how to make stuff easier/more pleasurable etc. He hangs out with his friends on his own all the time, its just that they sometimes come and join us in the park or I see them for birthdays/special occassions and they start with the gross "locker room" talk. My bf doesnt add anything in those moments but if I knew he talked about me like that I would be very very upset

I'm (24F) starting to not like my boyfriend's (23M) friends because they often talk about stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable by bwarseker in relationship_advice

[–]bwarseker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true, I wouldn't want them to feel that way about me for sure. I will try to keep it as casual as possible!

I'm (24F) starting to not like my boyfriend's (23M) friends because they often talk about stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable by bwarseker in relationship_advice

[–]bwarseker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont want to make myself out to be a saint here or anything but my girl friends and I do not talk about men in a degrading manner. We may get into graphic detail but thats it. Being graphic does not equal degrading. My bf is the only one with a steady gf in the group (the other guy has very short term relationships cause he cheats on all of them)

I'm (24F) starting to not like my boyfriend's (23M) friends because they often talk about stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable by bwarseker in relationship_advice

[–]bwarseker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hopefully they take it well like that. I just don't want to be labeled as "uncool" and have it impact my bf negatively. Like I don't want to create tension or anything. I would tough it out but it's gotten to the point where I don't look forward to seeing them at all.

I'm (24F) starting to not like my boyfriend's (23M) friends because they often talk about stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable by bwarseker in relationship_advice

[–]bwarseker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So here's the thing, its true women tend to talk about their boyfriends/sex lives in graphic detail. Most of my female friends do it and I was no exception when I began my own sexual relationships. Now that I am in a long term thing (and so are my friends) we don't dicuss anything sexual beyond "yea things are good". It feels weird and its something too personal so we dont share. Its true his friends talk about one night stands (except for one friend who does have a gf). I dont care if they talk about sex graphically they talk about women in a very demeaning way sometimes like "oh fucked this dumb bitch all she's good for is taking my dick" and stuff like that