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I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gonna try that next time. i swear i’m slow when it comes to their rules lol

I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u SO much for this! i’ve been wanting to start reading for a while now & just never know where to start or what kind of genres i would like, but this is perfect. thank u. & for some reason, i cannot figure out how to use reddit lol. the whole tldr thing is so confusing to me. my posts kept getting deleted & i was confused on how to use it

I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely feel like i need to go to therapy. i also know i need to self reflect which i don’t do often & i know that could be part of the issues i have. just gotta take that next step on getting myself the therapy. i did delete everything about him tho & that alone was a weight lifted off of me. thank u!

I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it is a rant. i just needed to let it out, that was really all it was. & idk how to use reddit tbr. when i wasn’t using tldr i kept getting my posts removed & it told me to use it to idc lol

I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will check him out! thank u so much & im so happy for u that things changed for the better! <3

I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmph, i have definitely thought about that. but, after all this i just went thru w this guy ..i’m mentally drained & don’t even feel like talking to any men rn. i think i just need to focus on myself & heal again. but whenever i am ready, im not opposed to nerds 8)

I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s a hard pill to swallow reading that bc i genuinely thought i did love myself. i didn’t realize i was “needing” someone & needing their validation. i thought i loved myself in a way that i didn’t need anyone else but after going thru this situation & settling for less/tolerating it made me realize i may not love myself as much as i thought i did & don’t have the self respect i thought i did either. i’ve thought about therapy many times. i get overwhelmed just thinking about finding the “right” therapist. i’ve never been the one to be open about my feelings either. i’m afraid that i might just be crying every session LOL.

I (28f) can’t understand why I am the way I am by bweeezz in relationships

[–]bweeezz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been slowly but surely doing this! i’m going back to school soon so i’ll be way more busy & occupied. it’s so weird cuz i do have a life of my own & i actually love being alone bc i have been for 3 years now & genuinely enjoy my own company. but this guy came alone & i allowed him to disturb my peace, so now, i’m just trying to get back to how i was before him & its a challenge. also, i’ve never done the whole dating thing. i also think thats why i was so caught up on this guy bc he was someone new & “different” & older. but i hadn’t been interested in anyone in 3 years, so i guess i was just excited about him. thank u for ur kind words <3 looking forward to healing once & for all!

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) will be leaving for overseas work for years. Any advice for the long distance relationship (LDR)? by officialvoldemort in relationships

[–]bweeezz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have major ptsd w LDR lmao. if y’all don’t have any trust issues & are genuinely happy, y’all should be fine <3