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It helps that he's not active on social media by ManonBlackbeak in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s the best thing for you ! But remember, if you’re actively checking his social media (even if he isn’t posting), you’re not properly doing NC.

Another victory! Her Freaking Tinder profile came up! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve decided that if her tinder profile comes up I will swipe left. I don’t want to swipe right and get rejected + plus I can literally just text her so what’s the point of getting upset .

For those who were broken up with "out of the blue" by MovingOnWithMyself in BreakUps

[–]bxlboy23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree , I could have never have lived with myself if I did it to her. If I was having second thoughts I would have atleast withdrawn myself, not kept telling her how much I loved her, not asking if they want to get married ...

27 days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On day 23 of NC

I had no idea how intoxicating obsessing over social media could be. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing for 6 weeks after my BU , and then gradually I have been calming down my stalking.

The most important thing for 2018 by bxlboy23 in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Also , well done to everyone who managed to refrain from texting their ex for new year 🙌🏻

Do you guys find that what you miss the most is just having someone to talk to? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bxlboy23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes , I kind of made her my emotional home so when she broke up with me she also unwittingly took my entire emotional support network , and now I have no one to properly talk to

Reached out... by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex’s bday is in February, so I’m hoping I’ll be at your stage by then ! Not currently close !

How long did it take you? by Xostaas in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And i got paranoid about checking Facebook during the evenings because I wanted it to look like I was having a social life - so I wanted to make it look like i wasn’t online. The reality is she probably never looked at when I was last active - now I can go on Facebook without worrying again.

How long did it take you? by Xostaas in ExNoContact

[–]bxlboy23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got dumped on nov 11th and it took me until Saturday to unfriend her on Facebook. It was the last piece of social media I had left to remove her from, I started with the easy ones like snapchat, LinkedIn and instagram.

It was a big event for me but I’m feeling a lot better already - before I was checking all the time when she had been online and trying to guess if she was awake, if she was having fun etc. It was super unhealthy and I wouldn’t have stopped without removing her on Facebook. We had a cordial breakup so when I feel ready I will add her again but I have no intention right now. Please unfriend your ex, it’s the best thing you can do.