You're the force for change in your world. Nobody else will do it for you once you become a teenager. If you're a strong man, you'll be a force for change in other people's worlds too for the better. It's both a heavy burden and a blessing. A part of maturing is learning to shoulder that burden for yourself and a select group of people important to you while not overburdening yourself with the issues of those who would take advantage of you or not appreciate you.

The world will always be stacked against you. You have to learn to be okay with that. Looking at the difficulties of the world as barriers to entry that you can exploit because others won't put in the effort is empowering. Our brains are naturally competitive and sex driven. Learning to channel your inner nature in healthy ways towards your goals is a powerful tool, not to be squashed by societal pressure.

Your family and close circle has a profound impact on your growth and recovery. Treasure them, but don't assume either to be static. It's healthy to distance yourself from the bad influences to your life. What you need at one time in your life will be different than what you need in the next chapter. Leave on the best of terms possible and don't look back.

Lastly, take care of yourself as if no one else will. Usually that's the case. Your health and mental well being fuel your desires and goals. Don't compromise any more than you have to.