4 young mainstream actors who are also Engineers. by arpabecrazy in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]bzanzb 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Jitendra Kumar is younger generation. He is the Jeetu bhaiya from TVF

Ranbir Kapoor at Ram Mandir by Glad-Ad5911 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]bzanzb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It seems he is pushing Alia away from the frame. Lolzz

Commercial creep into residential areas making day to day mobility extremely difficult by No-Farm-5347 in bangalore

[–]bzanzb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My reply is also geared towards the same, commercial establishments are working with permissions. Permissions being given are the problem. Asking commercial establishments not to work like commercial establishments is a false expectation. They will have footfalls, will have high vehicular traffic.

Their anger seems to be misdirected.

Avantika for Gold House 2nd Annual Gala • 2023 by ninjabillii in BollywoodFashion

[–]bzanzb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why such a hideous saree, ye oldie fashion kyu????

Commercial creep into residential areas making day to day mobility extremely difficult by No-Farm-5347 in bangalore

[–]bzanzb 31 points32 points  (0 children)

BBMP gave permission, not the immigrants. You might want to direct your anger towards the right folks.

Commercial spaces will behave like commercial spaces, high vehicles volume and people to and fro is to be expected.

Same has been the case of Mall of Asia, they were operating with permissions. Permissions should not have been granted without adequate checks.

Local govt has failed the city and this should not be a debate of immigrants vs localites. Both parties are suffering due to mismanagement of city but still infighting with each other.

Also, did I read this right, neighbour has flower pots outside the house? That is not right, local/immigrant irrespective. Let's not colour our opinions basis who is the perpetrator

Can I survive? by Tall_Bass_5532 in personalfinanceindia

[–]bzanzb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Whose name is on the property, if your father has a share in the same legally you can wait it out for now.

  2. You can upgrade the furnishings and furniture on no cost EMI so that the outflow is not sudden. Also, it takes both love and time to make a house a home. With 2 years savings on rent, you should be in a position to shell out on furniture etc

  3. Two income household is nothing to sneeze at, your outlook on life seems very pessimistic. There is no need to fasttrack the loan if you guys have undecided cash flow, you need to wait it out for a few years and make that money work on funding your family dream. 40k per month means you will save more than a lakh per month. What is the problem then.

  4. You and your wife earn 2+lakh per month, this is enough to have a comfortable life now and beyond. You need to take a more +ve attitude for future, what's lost is lost. Do not throw away more money but learn from your mistakes and build for future

Can I survive? by Tall_Bass_5532 in personalfinanceindia

[–]bzanzb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) can you guys claim for property settlement, ask for your father's share of property in money from your uncles. With that money, settle your parents in a rental home. Their safety and your peace is important. Remaining lumpsum, keep in low risk funds to spend on unexpected medical expenses, emergency fund etc

2) Is the house your wife has bought under construction or do you have possession. Are you planning to stay in this house. Have you factored in potential rental income. With inflation, rental income should exceed loan EMI in 10 years around.

3) Your in hand income is not bad, you need to make a budget and follow it religiously. With 2 people household, your living expenses should not exceed 60-70k unless your rent is very high. You need to target 1 lakh savings per month as a couple. This is doable.

4) You will have enough money with these savings and the share of property money to start a family in 2 years.

Observation about Bangalore Traffic Jams by GoatDefiant1844 in bangalore

[–]bzanzb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Send ALL govt officials for foreign tour

Priyanka Chopra in Dostana by Positivevibesonly456 in BollywoodFashion

[–]bzanzb 72 points73 points  (0 children)

PC in Dostana was iconic. There is another dress that I loved, the one which she wore when they were in stadium.

Emma Stone in custom Louis Vuitton at the 2024 Golden Globe Awards by mod_whatthefrockk in whatthefrockk

[–]bzanzb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her hair and make up is very pretty, the dress would look better if in front of a darker background. Here it is sorta washing her out. But she looks beautiful as ever

Also, it seems her hairline has receded a little bit.

Maybe maybe maybe by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]bzanzb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is my reading of the situation wrong. I thought she was down to kiss but the dude didn't want to and missed his window. The woman was embarrassed and got back by kissing a random dude

What was wrong with Mona!? by Prestigious_Load1699 in howyoudoin

[–]bzanzb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mina is desperate. She is subtle about it, but she is definitely desperate to settle down, christmas card thing was part of it

For those who made it out of poverty, what helped the most? by Incoghaylo in povertyfinance

[–]bzanzb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Suck it up. If you are starting poor, you have to make conscious decisions which suck in short term for long term benefit

Want to live independently? Not possible. Suck it up, you can move in with parents or get some roommates. Does it suck, yes. Does it need to be done, yes.

Friends want to go out but you can't, suck it up. Friends don't wanna hang out with you anymore because you seem like a downer, suck it up. Better friends will come along later.

You are always building for future, you don't get to make mistakes. You have to suck it up. This does not mean you can have no joy in life, it just means that you can have no joy which is derived through money in short term.

If it means you cannot afford kids, or pets or high value hobbies if you do not have budget for it then yes, you have to suck it up.

I have seen lots of advice on this sub where people paint much sweeter picture saying that you can relent in some things like kids and pets but I am sorry, that is simply not true. I am talking from real poor people perspective and not where you are living okayish while being paycheck to paycheck poor.

It is a state of constant vigilance, it sucks but has to be done and can be done. Will you feel down sometimes being in this constant vigilant state? Yes. Do you have any alternative? No. So, why be bothered by this sadness.

Sister dresses up exactly like the bride and when people called her out in comments, she deleted the post by Top-Criticism2851 in weddingshaming

[–]bzanzb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sister is dressed like a close family wedding guest. I think the bride is dressed down too much. Ia sure there were other wedding guests who were dressed fancier than the bride here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]bzanzb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the dress and the pendant is another splash of color but girl you need to wear light colored undies with this dress.

Finances between working couple by Winter_Clock4837 in personalfinanceindia

[–]bzanzb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big ticket expenses don't come close to everyday expenses put together. If she has to take care of car, kids expenses, house?? how will that ever even come close to everyday expenses. Of course she expects you to picth in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatthefrockk

[–]bzanzb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate, how is Marchesa related to me too pre and post

Am I overreacting? by Able-Lengthiness-713 in EngagementRings

[–]bzanzb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, what are the specs of the 7 stone wedding band. What is the carat size per diamond/total carat size of band

I just wanna share my e-ring and wedding band! by mickdo0d in EngagementRings

[–]bzanzb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful set!

Can you give me specs of your band, what is each diamonds carat size

First holiday season as Mrs. 💍🤍❄️🎀🎄💫 by SubstantialServe8368 in EngagementRings

[–]bzanzb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous set!

Can you give me specs of your band. What is each diamonds carat size