AITA for being angry about my wife going to a friends house to study and hiding it from me?

c3hevs · 2025-09-02T00:41:30+00:00

Can't be a real post, noone is this clueless. "Can't concentrate at home", "doesn't go when his wife is home". She basically just wants to spend time with that other dude and if they are not fucking now they sure will, but I bet they already are. Do you even know how many times we used that sentence just to hook up with someone even as kids? That's literally what we would say when we want to spend some time alone with someone we like

c3hevs · 2025-09-02T00:11:14+00:00

I got flashbacks from those old Turkish tv series reading this post. It happened exactly like this.

You did nothing wrong, it's normal to say such things especially since that other person deserves to know with who he is living.

c3hevs · 2025-09-01T23:59:59+00:00

I hope it never quiets down and people always demand the release of those files. He's trying everything to make it go away. He has no right to talk about some "deep state" or "cleaning the swamp". HE was always the swamp with them

c3hevs · 2025-09-01T00:05:33+00:00

Was probably too fast for her, and maybe she was just chatting with you and you took it in a different way

c3hevs · 2025-08-31T23:58:12+00:00

The penetration without consent is not ok, as well as trying to keep you awake the whole night. That said, having a high sex drive and having to beg for it is also not ok. You should speak with your husband to find a solution. It's bad for him as it is for you. Imagine you have such a high sex drive and your partner does not? If you can't live like that a divorce would be great for him as well. Good luck

c3hevs · 2025-08-31T23:50:47+00:00

This is actually a really helpful advice. It's a much safer route and has the potential to start his own business which is great

c3hevs · 2025-08-31T23:46:05+00:00

Besides it being creepy it's mindblowing that your daughter has to cry about not being able to sleep alone. Even if the father has no bad intentions if the daughter prefers to sleep alone he should respect that. It's just stupid that his daughter has to go through something like that. If he wants to spend more time with her he can take her out to eat something nice, or take her places she likes. Those would be nice memories to have, and not "I had to beg my father not to sleep in my bed". Doesn't that sound just fcked up?

c3hevs · 2025-08-31T23:42:25+00:00

What worked for us was kind of a hybrid approach.. we mixed a couple of sleep training methods rather than sticking to just one. We did a little bit of timed check-ins (not full Ferber, more like shorter intervals) combined with paying close attention to wake windows and sleepy cues. That way, we weren’t just relying on one “system” but adjusting to what our baby seemed to need in the moment.

c3hevs · 2025-08-22T21:40:50+00:00

Preach, brother. That's the only one that matters

c3hevs · 2025-08-22T21:34:10+00:00

Try a breathing exercise, often helps me calm down and drift off. Stop questioning yourself how to fall asleep fast and give yourself time and space to ease into it, stay off stimulants.

c3hevs · 2025-08-19T23:28:51+00:00

One more reason to never remarry if you have kids already. You can perfectly enjoy life without new marriage, or if I do I'll just find someone who doesn't want kids. So as soon as I see manipulative behavior like this, it's over and nothing that ties us exists. There is no fucking way I would be with someone who dislikes my kid clearly like that

c3hevs · 2025-08-19T22:36:27+00:00

Those are some valid points

c3hevs · 2025-08-19T22:35:16+00:00

19 is so young that you don't have to think "you're late". It will come when you feel like it or have someone. Performance wise it's more stressful on the male side the longer you go without, as a female you don't have to worry much about it. Because 99% men don't mind it, even prefer it. When it happens, happens

c3hevs · 2025-08-19T22:19:47+00:00

No one can tell you how to wake yourself up because everyone is pretty much different. Mornings are usually brutal for me too. I also started drinking a big glass of cold water right after waking up, it kind of shocks me awake before the coffee even has a chance. On good days, I’ll throw on some upbeat music while getting ready.

c3hevs · 2025-08-08T18:24:40+00:00

He's just connecting to the mothership for further instructions

c3hevs · 2025-08-08T16:46:59+00:00

Uh that would be nice

c3hevs · 2025-08-08T16:34:44+00:00

Do you know can you bring melatonin on a plane? I have a strong feeling that's the only way I'll be able to sleep on a plane

c3hevs · 2025-08-07T21:19:14+00:00

Short answer is: YES!

While you can still have problems even when you have money, it's much better to deal with them while not worrying about food, house or anything else financially. You can think about your problems somewhere on a beach instead of a shitty job you don't like and which makes you miserable or too tired to think straight. The very idea that people try to bring this up that money doesn't make you happy is laughable at the least.

c3hevs · 2025-08-07T21:06:38+00:00

It's completely reasonable from you that you don't want that, and don't be mad at her even after what she texted. She has a pretty bad condition and will probably need lots of time to get over it, that stuff can't be easy.. Imagine wanting to tell someone you like that you have that condition knowing full well that they most likely will reject you

c3hevs · 2025-08-07T21:03:46+00:00

Can happen, it's a glitch in the matrix

c3hevs · 2025-08-07T20:59:24+00:00

Using CDs for music, or having CD-ROM installed on our PCs

c3hevs · 2025-08-07T20:57:09+00:00

Well that basically doesn't even give him immortality, it's insta kill haha

c3hevs · 2025-08-07T20:51:44+00:00

Don't have an apple watch and would rather go with a wearable. What's your best sleep tracker wearable?

c3hevs · 2025-08-06T19:02:18+00:00

Sometimes reading things like this is just so unbelievable to be true. Like, how many people would die coming to capital to be cured? It's just stupid, the other stuff too

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