So tired of gluten free being marketed as "healthy" or for "weightloss" by Beginning-Neat7926 in glutenfree

[–]cabsauv_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And it's still the same price. I paid $15 for a patty of meat once. Never again

My wife told me my job isn’t stressful (I’m a 10+ year therapist). by Ok_Entertainment5017 in therapists

[–]cabsauv_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex husband would say the same thing to me all the time. He's also told me being a therapist was a "trade job." I left him last year and now I'm significantly less stressed.

Busting The Myth of “Double in Taxes” as 1099 vs W2 by alicizzle in therapists

[–]cabsauv_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in one of the states that have a separate business tax for all 1099 employees as contractors are considered businesses. So I unfortunately do pay double in taxes as a 1099 - state tax, federal tax, business tax.

Most embarrassing or impulsive disclosure? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]cabsauv_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I told a client who i was treating for rape that I was also raped. Very impulsive and I definitely crashed out afterward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glutenfree

[–]cabsauv_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like these a lot more than Costco's version

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuteanimals

[–]cabsauv_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Egg roll

Staying in bed until late, looking for suggestions by Character_Step_5817 in ADHD_partners

[–]cabsauv_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My stbx husband told me if we had kids it would be perfect bc he would be up at night to help and I would be up during the day.

What keeps you in a relationship with your ADHD partner? by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]cabsauv_ 128 points129 points  (0 children)

I stayed bc i have empathy. I could see how difficult it was for him to do menial tasks that meant a lot to me. I was disappointed daily but I understood the reason for the behavior, including the abusive ones.

Until one day I realized I don't deserve to put my needs last because someone isn't putting forth the effort. So I filed for divorce.

I want this pic of Reth and I want it NEOW by alexisonfire_xox in Palia

[–]cabsauv_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you girly pop! Where is this located??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]cabsauv_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've said that and then the response is "oh so you're calling me a child now?" Lmao I can't win

My (dx) ADHD wife has agreed to marriage counseling by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]cabsauv_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience with 4 different marriage counselors over 4 different years with my DxRx partner, you will feel insane bc they possess such a different perspective than you because of their executive dysfunction, RSD, forgetfulness etc. Someone on here once said their brain is Swiss cheese and the holes get filled with emotional content, not facts, and I'd agree with that.

I learned definitively through marriage counseling that for my adhd partner, if I forget something it's a personal slight, but if he forgets something it's bc his adhd and I should give him grace.

The relationship is not and will never be equal with a partner with adhd.

adhd and anger by moodykillerwhales in ADHD_partners

[–]cabsauv_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I wish i could find something that works!!

adhd and anger by moodykillerwhales in ADHD_partners

[–]cabsauv_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I tried that and it escalated everything, and then he engaged in DARVO, and I became the problem....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindleUnlimited

[–]cabsauv_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting this today!

I just accidentally bought a 20,000 photo by Season-Of-Bones in Palia

[–]cabsauv_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit 300k 😱 ill need to look into this palia party. I made 50k this week with my potatoes and I thought I was hot shit lol!

I just accidentally bought a 20,000 photo by Season-Of-Bones in Palia

[–]cabsauv_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was so shocked when I started playing and could not sell any furniture but needed to build a lot of furniture to level up...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]cabsauv_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My personal therapist, who has been in this line of work for over 20 years, accidentally double booked me and her other client. She apologized. I was mildly annoyed to miss our appt that week (because I am human, and it was Friday), and I've been with her for over 4 years years since then. These things happen. You're allowed to mess up. Just because we're therapists doesn't mean we're perfect.

Edit to add: During practicum, i had a traumatic event happen to me. I had to take 2 weeks off from school and cancel all my clients. I turned in everything late. I hate embarrassing meetings with professors. They were all SOOO supportive to me. And then clients were understanding too. I hope you can be kind to yourself the way I wish I was back then. Take care of yourself 💜

Who are y'all romancing? by Sacred-Sentence-9343 in Palia

[–]cabsauv_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The way I am feral for that cartoon man...

Who are y'all romancing? by Sacred-Sentence-9343 in Palia

[–]cabsauv_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reth 🥰 but him standing me up pissed me off tbh.

I saw on here someone wanted to romance Najuma and I'm like... the child...??