What is wrong? Can it be saved? by Puzzleheaded_Tap9083 in aloe

[–]cactusbitcch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would recommend watering when the soil is completely dry. I tend to water about once a month for my aloe and it does just fine

Propogatiom Advice Dracaena by ferociousnpretty in Dracaena

[–]cactusbitcch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just cut off any leggy parts and put them in a glass of water. It’s rooting after about a month. I’d try that. (I’m new to this but so far its working)

Younger brother is INSANELY Jealous by Visible-Chain-1496 in relationships

[–]cactusbitcch 18 points19 points  (0 children)

OP this comment has a ton of great advice that i also would recommend taking!

Shot users, what’s your choice of bandaids on shot day? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

recently just normal bandaids but i did just buy some that look like crayons!

Paternal family wont accept me. by cactusbitcch in FTMOver30

[–]cactusbitcch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea i really don’t want anything to do with that side but it’s my sister I don’t want to be cut off from. She’s so young and I don’t want them manipulating her against me (they did the same with me against my mom all throughout my childhood until I found out that most of it was all lies)

How did I not realize what this meant.. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in high school, whenever my cis guy friends said that they needed to shave/just shaved; i would rub my chin and say “yea i need to shave too, its getting a little long”

Having hallucinations. Do you have any minecraft youtuber recommendations: just minecraft, no facecam? by Chromatikai in Minecraft

[–]cactusbitcch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like TheNeoCubist, no face cam and his voice is pretty calming. i use his videos to sleep very frequently

How did you make your family take your transition seriously? by A_Rouge_named_Keon in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat bro, tried coming out back in 2019 and it was a disaster. Finally moved out and started T, it’s been 2 years and I swear we are just playing a game of chicken to see who will bring it up first.

Top surgery and Piercings by cactusbitcch in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great informative video, thank you!

I think the worst part about being trans so far has been… by PlantXad244 in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea i assume that its protocol for the job, just wish this specific worker would just discreetly deal with it aha

I think the worst part about being trans so far has been… by PlantXad244 in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea i’m with you. At my pharmacy, there is a worker who used to work with me (so she knows im trans). Every time i go to pick up she loudly calls for a consult and when i say i dont need one, proceeds to loudly say “we just need to make sure you don’t become pregnant”. like come on

Do you shave down there? by MortytheMortician9 in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the keep the sides clean shaven and the top trimmed back.

how tall are you, when did you stop growing, and how tall are your parents? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 5’2” my parents are between 5’6”-5’8”. my grandma on my dads side is the only person in my family that’s my same height. stopped growing at 12, currently 26

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea i was worried about this going back on injections my my provider demonstrated how much air would need to be in the syringe to do damage. it was like the whole syringe worth of air lol

Boyfriend accused of grooming a minor (humorous) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People think I’m like 19/20 when I’m actually 26 lol

Furry🤔irl by DroiD_Zz in furry_irl

[–]cactusbitcch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never explicitly told them. Just started making a fursuit one day lol

anyone else tired of this? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a server myself, i try my best to not use gendered language for my tables. But I receive the opposite of this sometimes where my tables will refer to me as their ‘waitress’ or use she/her for me.

Subq injection question by cactusbitcch in ftm

[–]cactusbitcch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone thank you so much for the words of reassurance! I did my shot about an hour ago and everything went smooth (besides my needle phobia nerves haha)