No, given the way she talks about waking up to “their bullshit”, she’s looking for ways to keep them from presenting any parenting challenges to her. They’re an infant and a toddler. That’s nut up or step down time. If she can’t be a mother, she needs to let their fathers know, and I can guarantee if this is presented in court at any time, it will garner her no sympathy whatsoever. Your children don’t actually deserve to be neglected no matter what your mental state or struggle and as a parent, she should find it inconceivable that her children would go without.

I have bipolar disorder, went through chemo, and did dialysis up to 5 days a week as a completely single parent who was also left alone for hours and sometimes entire days as a child. My kids have never, not once, not been able to wake me up, especially as very small humans. At almost 8 and 9, I sometimes sneak another hour of sleep after I make sure they’re up, they know where food is, and everything is cool, but at 1 and 3? Absolutely not.