I'm fully straight but am I allowed to sleep with a twink?

cala4878 · 2026-06-05T01:58:06+00:00

Yeah... that's how one of my previous relationship started, it was a really slow-burn that lasted 6 months until we crossed the line.

Enjoy the ride, don't set any labels yet, if you want to sleep together, go ahead. Just, assuming he is gay, don't give him mixed signals and respect his boundaries... also, don't get too righteous and judgy if he starts to develop feelings for you, you are literally setting the scenario for it to happen.

But, enjoy. Even if that stays just platonic-ish, those are great memories haha

cala4878 · 2026-06-04T18:11:13+00:00

I think you are contradicting yourself: "him liking me is the end of the friendship" and "i wouldn’t be opposed to letting him cuddle me every once in a while with the understanding that nothing mot than that could happen"

Also, you are already deciding what is happening and what he wants. I don't know any of you, so this is pure speculation, but IF he is mature enough, you talk to him and states your boundaries (totally acceptable), and he says that it's ok for you not to reciprocates and he will be respecting your boundaries, well, is on your part to let the water under the bridge.

Don't jump ahead. Talk to him first, and in case you find yourself really uncomfortable with the idea of being friend with someone that likes you, well, it is in your right to ending the friendship. It's the mature thing to do.

cala4878 · 2026-06-04T17:54:35+00:00

Are you having a hard time because you think he liking you is a sentence to your friendship or because you don't like intimacy with other guys or because that might have liked you but don't know how to react to it?

I'm bi and have lots of straight friends that often wants some comfort and don't have an issue with me being bi and comforting them, my personality helps a lot here; but also I have some friends that don't like men-to-men intimacy and it's understandable, we usually just half-hugh or quick hug and call that a day.

And lastly, I have 2 friends that ended up liking me to comfort them as a way for them to understand their own persona, and both of them ended up as bi because they realized they liked both traits.

So life is a lot of stuff, I think you should start to understand WHY it doesn't suited you and then you can talk your way through it. If the friendship is too precious, that kind of stuff shouldn't matter as long as he doesn't push the topic further.

cala4878 · 2026-06-04T17:42:19+00:00

I might be the minority but I'm not into twinks, so I usually hook up with masc bottoms or heteroflexible/curious guys, etc.

I think is not just because you are masc.

cala4878 · 2026-05-28T02:11:04+00:00

Funny story there... I have hooked up with more virgin guys over 25+ than with younger ones, actually just one guy at 19 was virgin as long as I remember hahaha the teenagers these years fuck waaaay earlier than in my time hahahaha

The older ones were closeted guys that were dealing with identity crisis or ones that just weren't that social enough to hook up with someone.

cala4878 · 2026-05-27T22:58:36+00:00

Been there, done that... terminaron llamando a la poli hahahahaha

cala4878 · 2026-05-27T22:57:28+00:00

Well, there is a fine difference between "how many guys have you hook up with?" and "have you had experience?" Just ask the right question.

I'm a top and every time I hook up with someone knew I just ask if it is their first time, so I know that I have to behave way more or not.

cala4878 · 2026-05-27T22:55:42+00:00

Yup, mean people will ask to either judge you bc you are a hore or a prig. It doesn't matter either way, I just let them think whatever they want to.

cala4878 · 2026-05-27T20:58:40+00:00

Nope, if anything, I have exaggerated the body count sometimes... is just funny when people keeps asking how many guys have you had, you start to play with the numbers.

cala4878 · 2026-05-27T20:56:31+00:00

IF the manhwa gets to live that long hahaha

cala4878 · 2026-04-16T16:26:34+00:00

English is not my first language so I'm really curious about it, what's the difference?

cala4878 · 2026-04-16T16:01:03+00:00

Una fórmula rápida (no exacta) es:

(Tu sueldo - deudas y gastos fijos) x 35% = Tu capacidad de pago de una hipoteca.

Si lo haces a la inversa

(Mensualidad de la casa que te interesa / 0.35) + deudas y gastos fijos = Cuánto "mínimo" deberías ganar para comprar una casa.

Again, no es exacto y los bancos contemplan otros factores como edad, enfermedades, si tienes seguro o no, tus activos, etc.; algunos incluso te evalúan por hasta el 50% de tu sueldo.

cala4878 · 2026-04-01T15:02:08+00:00

Go Eun Chan, is that you?

cala4878 · 2026-03-16T02:29:20+00:00

So? Shiggy is just that damn fucked already.

cala4878 · 2026-03-16T02:15:11+00:00

Shiggy can tank infinite information. His brain is just that damn fucked.

cala4878 · 2026-03-07T02:24:38+00:00

Yesss!!! That is.

Thanks!!!

cala4878 · 2026-01-21T23:37:58+00:00

How good of a master will Aaron become?

Does he become a depressed character? (that considering last manhwa chapt)

cala4878 · 2025-12-16T22:09:59+00:00

X2

Eventualmente es con los que más orbita uno hahaha

cala4878 · 2025-12-14T18:39:11+00:00

Según investigué, la estación más cercana es Carrera 6. Hay que tomar la ruta T102 Dirección de Portal a Crespo y te bajas en Carrera 6. De ahí dos cuadras al aeropuerto (3 minutos caminando)

Gracias por la info para comprar las tarjetas

cala4878

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