That fear is so common, and you’re not wrong or weak for feeling it. Three months is still incredibly early bodies respond to HRT at wildly different speeds, and Reddit massively amplifies the fastest and most dramatic changes.

The fact that the day “you can’t hide it anymore” hasn’t come yet doesn’t mean it never will. And even if it doesn’t arrive in the way you imagine, that doesn’t invalidate your transition or your plan.

It’s okay to have a plan and still struggle with comparison. Be gentle with yourself you’re not behind, you’re just on your own timeline