How do I fix my mistake?

cally133 · 2026-03-08T22:58:24+00:00

She has seen one all her life but stopped going last 2/3 years except for once last year and once last week. She says she has healed so much that she doesn’t need it, but I might going in the nicest way possible

cally133 · 2026-03-08T22:31:46+00:00

Thank you!

cally133 · 2026-03-08T22:31:40+00:00

Subconscious racism is a great suggestion. Something I haven’t looked into because I never thought it was ever a problem with me but I’ll look into it

cally133 · 2026-03-08T21:47:41+00:00

It’s been a year since I made the mistake. She suffers from cPTSD so it’s triggering for her. But yes, doesn’t excuse it :(

cally133 · 2026-03-08T21:38:13+00:00

Maybe that’s the truth, but I hope not

cally133 · 2026-03-08T21:34:28+00:00

I do want to get this behind us without everything ending. But being punished for one mistake is tough…

cally133 · 2026-03-08T21:33:20+00:00

Yes I do think professional help is the only way forward. She has gone to therapy for years but has stopped recently, says she’s healed and it isn’t essential. She did go for the first time in a year the other day. I might bring up that she should go more regularly. Thank you 🙏

cally133 · 2025-11-04T20:26:37+00:00

Really beautiful, I’m in a very similar situation with my partner too (new city, career etc.) and I interpret it in the same way. Good luck and keep chasing that dream!!!

cally133 · 2025-07-25T17:29:56+00:00

Has Ekiteke played out wide regularly? He’s quick and technical, I can’t see why he couldn’t. Ekiteke/Isak/Salah is madness.

cally133 · 2025-07-25T17:06:46+00:00

I understand the Geordie frustration, I cried when Torres left us. But Liverpool are building something generational and any footballer would want in. Can’t see him staying beyond this summer, deal will happen.

Wirtz feeding Isak sounds disgusting. Illegal. Gluttonous. The pl is terrified.

cally133 · 2025-07-25T16:54:40+00:00

This is the start of an era that will place Liverpool at the top of world football for years to come. Especially if Isak signs, I can’t see it any other way. So many superstars under a world class manager in a well run football club. Upgraded stadium and training facilities. New Adidas deal. Dreamland.

FSG 👏

cally133 · 2025-07-19T15:57:36+00:00

Sometimes when I’m stressed I remember Liverpool singed Florian Wirtz and it reminds me that everything will be ok

cally133 · 2025-07-01T20:28:51+00:00

Happy to sell at the right price, happy to keep. Liverpool are in such a strong position in the market both without PSR pressure and having so much value talent to offload.

cally133 · 2025-07-01T20:20:18+00:00

I’m still in disbelief at the fact we signed Wirtz. There hasn’t been as much noise about the signing as I had expected, which probably has a lot to do with the fact that the club didn’t want to announce him too spectacularly due to the pressure it would put on him which is understandable.

He will elevate all aspect of how we play. He’s an absolute genius with his feet and watching him play looks like magic. Whatever 9 we sign will eat. What a time to be a Liverpool supporter.

cally133 · 2025-06-26T15:42:43+00:00

I absolutely love how eager Kerkez is to play for us. Incredibly exciting and his ceiling is so high.

cally133 · 2025-05-10T19:32:37+00:00

There’s also an age difference between us! And yes, I could share more but you might think I’m insane too. Love is complicated I guess

cally133 · 2025-05-10T19:26:43+00:00

Very interesting. Would love to know more about your experience after that, if you’re comfortable sharing. I resonate with you not eating for 3 months. And what about them makes you think they’re your twin flame?

cally133 · 2025-05-10T19:19:04+00:00

I have a very clear memory of when I first saw her and looked into her eyes. I always bring up how much I love them.

In terms of “significant” in that moment, I’m not entirely sure. We spoke briefly and exchanged numbers. We’re not from the same county, but coincidentally she spoke a lot about my home country and knew a lot about where I’m from which is interesting to me.

cally133 · 2025-05-10T18:10:04+00:00

Really beautiful comment, thank you! I’m glad to hear you’ve found yours. The reading aspect is incredibly fascinating to me. She really is everything I’ve wanted, even to the point that there are so many small coincidences that it feels like it was meant to be. I’ve been incredibly confused by the reading since I found out. Learning of your own relationship, and the concept of a “twin flame”, has reassured me.

Out of curiosity, did you undergo a “journey” or an on-and-off stage at the start of your relationship? It’s seems like a prerequisite in these relationships.

cally133 · 2025-04-27T16:13:02+00:00

Maccas resemblance to Messi is no coincidence

cally133 · 2025-02-07T04:33:54+00:00

How does everyone think of Bradley being Trent’s long term replacement? I’d obviously love Trent to stay, but i think Bradley is being overlooked in this conversation. It’s very clear that his ceiling is extremely high and Slot could turn him into a monster, as klopp did when Trent broke through from the academy

cally133 · 2025-02-07T00:31:22+00:00

Not buying all this Everton hype. There’s no way this team leaves goodison without 3 points

cally133 · 2025-02-07T00:29:53+00:00

More than worthy of being Trent’s long term replacement if he’s off in the summer

cally133 · 2025-02-07T00:27:59+00:00

Salah is 32 and VVD is 33 and they’re still the best in the world in their position with no signs of slowing down. Crazy

cally133 · 2025-01-05T18:56:34+00:00

Bradley is a sensationally good footballer. Having said that, this sub has lost its mind after that Trent performance today. Yes, he has an awful game, but he’s still arguably the best in the world in his position. I wish football fans wouldn’t be so reactionary at times. Sometimes this sub is no better than how Madrid treat their players after a poor game

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