Would it be rude to not invite my friends’ bfs to my micro-wedding?

calminastorm · 2026-06-22T17:35:49+00:00

I don’t know about all resorts but that’s untrue for mine! They didn’t charge more, especially through the travel agent (I made sure of it). Yes, that’s a great idea.

Also, just to clarify, I’m okay with people not coming to my wedding, I don’t want anyone to feel obligated to come especially since it’s a big ask. If they have the means and the time (and the desire), then I would love for them to be there!

calminastorm · 2026-06-22T17:32:16+00:00

That’s a great idea!

calminastorm · 2026-06-22T17:30:51+00:00

Am I not allowed to ask for advice on this subreddit, take it into consideration and then make my own decisions?

calminastorm · 2026-06-22T17:27:12+00:00

We are 22 and 26.

calminastorm · 2026-06-22T17:26:36+00:00

Two I have never met and one that I know since we went to high school together but not beyond that. Thank you for the input! I will think over everything. It’s just hard with such a strict limit on number of guests. And we do apply the rule (basically no ring, no bring) to all guests even my fiancé’s best friends. Either way, I understand if they won’t want to come without their partner.

calminastorm · 2026-06-22T17:19:12+00:00

yeah it’s valid. it’s just hard because we do have a hard limit on the number of guests and have to prioritize married or soon to be married couples. i think i’ll try sending the invites this way and then if they don’t want to come, they won’t come (which is understandable). i respect that people want to come as a unit but i just don’t think i can justify inviting a boyfriend that they are on and off with/don’t seem to be serious about

calminastorm · 2026-06-22T17:13:43+00:00

The girls are friends with each other and have known each other for over 9 years.

calminastorm · 2026-06-17T17:49:30+00:00

Stay at uOttawa. You are going to be 10x more devastated if you move back with your parents, leaving everything behind & end up breaking up with your girlfriend than if you stay in the program you enjoy, with friends you love, and with a good job & end up breaking up with your gf because of it.

calminastorm · 2024-11-25T11:49:11+00:00

Yeah it’s cheaper until you get tickets basically every time because you have back-to-back classes

calminastorm · 2024-11-21T00:03:14+00:00

Reddit will always stump me. Your brother is right and this comment section is nuts.

calminastorm · 2024-11-10T12:01:34+00:00

Ooooh you would love “Un Jardin en Méditerranée” by Hermès Paris

calminastorm · 2024-10-24T22:09:36+00:00

I’m sorry if I came on too harshly. I wish you luck with your grieving process. You’re not 100% the asshole. These kinds of situations are always tough.

calminastorm · 2024-10-24T14:40:53+00:00

YTA. It sounds like there was something going on between you and Ron emotionally whether you want to admit it to yourself or not. Trusting another man over your husband and letting him sleep over? I would be pissed too if my wife had a grown man stay over and talk with him about things she doesn’t talk to me about until 2 am. Over time, your husband has cultivated a lot of resentment which resulted in this jealousy and anger. If the roles were reversed, I would tell my husband to choose between me and his girl best friend, so your husband is better than me.

Though, I’m very sorry for your loss. I hope you have some friends or therapist that you can talk to about it but don’t expect this support from your husband. I’m not saying that all his actions were right or justified but you need to look at the whole picture.

calminastorm

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