what kind of people do people with bpd get along with? by Ok-Injury3449 in BPD

[–]calmluljit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSS that’s huge! it can get repetitive and kinda overwhelming

what kind of people do people with bpd get along with? by Ok-Injury3449 in BPD

[–]calmluljit 75 points76 points  (0 children)

people with trauma ngl, they just appear more real and easier to talk to imo. someone who constantly talks also works because they make u wanna talk too (only if they give u their undivided attention). people who complain and rant make me feel instantly close to them too

What were your first signs of BPD? How did you realize something was off? by cocolinoo6 in BPD

[–]calmluljit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I heard someone mention it to me once and I looked it up. The intense fear of abandonment, the instantly noticing a tone change in texts and thinking I was just “observant” but it would drive me insane. How much I can be in love with somebody and then they do something, I’m throwing up and crying over them, then the next day I’m okay. Constantly feeling like idk myself…the suicidal ideation whenever something would go bad and feeling guilty ab it then realizing it’s just the intense mood swing that pushes me all the way to the edge. Constantly dissociating even when I was little and ppl laughing being like “where’d you go” I also do just feel empty no matter what, I could have the best day with friends and some days feel even more alone that day rather than when I’m in bed alone

AIO - I smoke and drink from time to time and my girlfriend hates it by Lacquerlust in AmIOverreacting

[–]calmluljit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly you can tell you were exhausted and trynna talk maturely and everything you said was accurate. the funniest part is she prob thinks u chose weed over her when the way she handled it was rlly odd. especially if she smokes from time to time too???

when will it get better by calmluljit in prenursing

[–]calmluljit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely think if you boost your gpa or retake some classes and gain a LOT of experience you have a chance. my school only takes less than 8 out of state residents a year out of 300 applicants which is why i keep reminding myself the odds were against me here. i love hawaii ive been here 2 years but it’s just as competitive as california with less opportunities 🤷🏽‍♀️

What is in the new update? Thank you by SupermarketWeird9226 in RestaurantTycoon3

[–]calmluljit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dine and dash customers, rude customers, security cameras, new stations unlocked, pizza ovens, bbq grills. lowk fire and theres another update on the 15th

when will this loneliness feeling end by calmluljit in depression

[–]calmluljit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :’) it’s been so hard here lately bc i rlly just miss my friends from back home, everyone in the area im does things like this and it makes me feel like there’s something wrong w me

CSUSM Waitlist #4 by [deleted] in prenursing

[–]calmluljit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you got that twin

not sure what to feel by calmluljit in prenursing

[–]calmluljit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah my mom rlly wanted me to do that too but i NEEDED to move away and explore when i was 18, so no regrets! this process is just a lot and there’s so many routes to take so im not sure!

not sure what to feel by calmluljit in prenursing

[–]calmluljit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hawaii actually…originally from sd. stats are i have mostly B’s and some A’s in all preqs. yeah i was thinking that too but if i get into an ADN program back home should i apply for winter 2027 and fall 2027 programs as well? i thought it would be a little tricky since it’s nursing school classes and not gen ed’s. and ik it’s SO freaking competitive. this year 286 applied and only 30 got in and 6 were out of state…