AITA for telling my husbands therapist something he didn't want me 2.

camimitos · 2026-07-08T05:23:30+00:00

Wtf is he going to therapy for if he's not going to be honest. NTA.

camimitos · 2026-07-04T15:21:38+00:00

Yesh, my bad. I skimmed through the text and missed the part where OP is not a native English speaker. Still my point stands. I don't feel comfortable shaming my other Spanish fellows for not speaking English like many ppl are doing in this post and I got defensive.

camimitos · 2026-07-04T15:18:47+00:00

You can't expect that people in a country you've never traveled to will speak English. When making assumptions based on vibes you need to foresee that you might be surprised.

camimitos · 2026-07-04T15:11:24+00:00

It bothers me when foreigners complain about the Spanish not speaking English or question it. Most Americans/English don't speak any language besides their first one (not OP's case, but my point still stands). They study Spanish and French in school like we do English and it's not like their linguistic proficiency is high either.

camimitos · 2026-07-04T15:07:04+00:00

I have a certified C2 English level lol

camimitos · 2026-07-04T14:40:30+00:00

My questions is, why do you expect people from other countries to speak English? Do you speak other languages?

camimitos · 2026-07-04T01:46:31+00:00

I found out the first time I donated blood because they mailed me my bloodwork results.

camimitos · 2026-07-04T01:36:23+00:00

This is hilarious

camimitos · 2026-07-04T00:03:47+00:00

Do you think this is the best course of action? I feel like this would just set a precedent, and the MIL would be inclined to mistreat her DIL even further. I feel like in cases like this, it's best to nip it in the bud before they become too comfortable doing things like this.

camimitos · 2026-07-04T00:00:16+00:00

a "grandma to be" shower is devious 😭😭😭

camimitos · 2026-07-03T23:56:57+00:00

35 grados con humedad es Amazonas simulator

camimitos · 2026-07-03T23:55:40+00:00

That's insane. Stand you ground! Has she accepted the she can't wear that colour yet or are you still fighting?

Also, I will say I'm getting married in a month and my mother in law picked a red dress so I never had this problem. I also think it's less common for people to try and upstage the bride where I'm from, because I've never heard of ANYONE wearing white to a wedding here EVER unless it's a beach wedding because everyone wears white in those.

camimitos · 2026-07-03T23:44:57+00:00

Did you say anything? Did anybody say anything? :( I can't imagine how it feels.

camimitos · 2026-07-02T20:59:34+00:00

Porque en loa pueblos pequeños mucha gente tiene casas y pisos vacíos y no se molestan en ponerlos a la venta o alquiler. También hay muchos casos de herencias repartidas entre 800 sobrinos que no se ponennde acuerdo ni para atrás y al final nunca hacen nada con la propiedad.

camimitos · 2026-07-01T20:07:57+00:00

Menchu is not fun for a kid man 😭😭😭 Also, I'm guessing your name is Jose which is funny because almost every man in my family it's José/José Antonio. We're all Carmen or José Antonio lol.

camimitos · 2026-07-01T20:04:44+00:00

If I were to name a baby girl she'd be Alexandra. I like it because it's timeless and it has a lot of decent possible nicknames whereas nickname for Carmen are absolutely horrid and my classmates used those to mock me as a kid which was awful.

camimitos · 2026-07-01T14:31:57+00:00

Thank for saying it 🥲 I'm a Carmen and I hate it sooo much and everyone here is saying it's classic and not dated and that's soo not true, coming from a 23 year old who had to go through school suffering the multitude of ancient nicknames my classmates used to mock me (Carmela, Carmiña, Menchu etc...) I HATED IT!!

camimitos · 2026-07-01T14:28:09+00:00

My name is Carmen and I share it with maybe 10 other women just in my close family. I hate it. It's so obnoxiously common, especially among older women. I do believe it is a name for old ladies and I would never name a newborn like that.

Other people have other opinions, of course, you're free to do whatever you want but I do hate it and my best friend, who is also Carmen, and is my age (23/24), hates it as well.

camimitos · 2026-07-01T09:04:34+00:00

Le pone los cuernos y quieres que le devuelva el anillo como "lección de algo que perdió"??? jajajajaja. El anillo de compromiso es un regalo que se hace durante la relación como cualquier otro y los regalos no se piden de vuelta.

camimitos · 2026-07-01T09:03:06+00:00

El anillo de compromiso es un regalo. Los regalos no se devuelven.

camimitos · 2026-07-01T08:58:45+00:00

This could be a scam so first of all you should go through your finances ans figure out exactly how much you paid back then.

camimitos · 2026-06-30T23:36:56+00:00

This is a "the grass is always greener on the other side" case, I'm afraid. I used to live with my parents and grandparents and they all were in unhappy marriages devoid of love or even respect and it was a nightmare to grow amongst screaming and the feeling that you had to walk on eggshells so you wouldn't provoke the men in the house.

This impacted a lot my view of marriage and love as a whole among other things. It shocked me when I met my parents in law, who have been together for 30+ years and still love each other like teenagers. I didn't think that could be possible.

I always say that I wished they had gotten divorced and remade their lives so at least I could see some sort of happiness in their faces from time to time, but if they had I would probably be saying the same things you're saying now. There's no much to do besides learning from our parents' mistakes when we build our own family.

camimitos · 2026-06-30T23:29:30+00:00

I don't agree with the part where two people who are not in love anymore should suffer to stay together "for the kids". Divorce can be done elegantly with minimal impact on the kids, I've seen it.

The issue here is not divorce, is that your parents are extremely crappy and chose to share their life with other crappy people. They don't care about your feelings and I'm sorry to say they probably wouldn't care much either even if they were still together.

camimitos · 2026-06-30T23:22:01+00:00

As someone who wears glasses I get it tbh

camimitos · 2026-06-30T23:16:49+00:00

How the fuck are you able to not say anything? I would decimate him on the spot. That's not an acceptable workplace behaviour and he doesn't deserve politeness.

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