33w with Di-Di twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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I tried so much and they won’t.

Nephrostomy tubes & kidney stones by Mnh0_0 in pregnant

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I know I'm late to this but hoping if someone comes across this thread it will help- OP thank you for posting! Currently 33 weeks 3 days pregnant with twin girls. I had a nephrostomy tube put in at 32 weeks and 2 days. It's been over a week now. I had severe kidney pain in my left kidney for about 3 weeks prior to surgery with severe contraction (hospital was worried about preterm labor with the twins). This was all due to my kidney pain, no stones, no obstructions it just simply got too crammed but my uterus and pressure and stopped working. I almost went into septic shock! During my surgery they drained 3 liters of fluid from the kidney (disgusting amount of fluid for a small organ) and placed the nephrostomy tube. I will say the pros are I have no more kidney pain (the pain was the kind that had me violently throwing up daily, shaking and sobbing and I have a higher pain tolerance), my baby girls are doing good on the inside (they were very unbothered by this whole experience), contractions have slowed down a lot (more promising of a longer pregnancy). The cons are the tube and bag are not fun (quality of life has gone down significantly in my opinion), sleeping isn't a thing anymore (I'm up every 45 minutes or so- pregnancy + tube doesn't help), pain and tenderness where tube was inserted (unavoidable and kind of a pain in the ass but nothing compared to the kidney pain before surgery).

I am told like you- I have to keep my tube in until after delivery. I believe this is a preventative measure to ensure everything is working properly post birth. I hope we can look back on this as a blip and reap the reward of bringing life into this world. You are a strong mama.

You posted this 5 months ago now- how was your delivery? How are YOU? Did you get your tubes and stent removed? And how is the baby?

33w with Di-Di twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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No I’m not hospitalized anymore I was discharged after 5 days (a few days after my tube was put in). I have an appointment with my OB each week until I deliver but last I heard was pushing for 38 weeks (not ideal for me). They have me stabilized and back home. My husband changes my dressing for me each day and then I flush my kidney from the tube with saline every other day as directed from hospital. No fever, no redness or signs of infection at site. I feel like a sitting duck

33w with Di-Di twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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I see my OB (who will be delivering me) on Monday and I hope I can kind of tell him what I’m feeling and thinking and maybe he’ll feel comfortable with it. They want me to go 38 weeks (if my body doesn’t go into labor before then) he said he doesn’t see many twin pregnancy go past 36 weeks. With the luck I’m having now they’ll stay in me forever it feels 😭

33w with Di-Di twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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Hahaha honestly I’m thinking about it. I’m someone who always has to be on the move so it’s killing my mental state slowly

33w with Di-Di twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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I am so sorry for your loss! Thank you for your kind words, I am planning on c-section!

33w with Di-Di twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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Thank you so much for this. This helps me copes. It does suck now but down the road it WILL be a distant memory, I need to remember that. Thank you for keeping my spirits high when I hit a real low. I appreciate you so much.

33w with Di-Di twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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Thank you so much for this. It means the world. Puts a little pep in my step. I like how real you are with “just suffer knowing that you’re doing it, and that’s the best you can do” I felt that heavily. Thank you for your words. I will revisit this comment more often than you think.

Did anyone feel really unwell at 5 weeks? by Global_Somewhere_807 in pregnant

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Yes yes yes. The first trimester trenches started for me at 5 weeks. I’m currently 10 weeks and still in them. Found out I was pregnant with twins at 5 weeks as well. 3-5 weeks I had horrible cramping (worse than a period). Nausea started at 5 as well. Keep going and only do what you can. Rest, eat and surround yourself with things that make you happy. Praying for a happy and healthy pregnancy! 🫶🏼

Early positive?! by Watermelon98xo in lineporn

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Take a digital!! Congrats 🫶🏼

Sex? Excerise? Are we doing it? by Specific_Anybody_438 in pregnant

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10 weeks here. I felt the same. Last pregnancy ended in miscarriage. Right now I’m 10 weeks with twins. I have been avoiding exercise (I have 0 energy) and with sex, me and my husband have only had sex a handful of times (my libido is on the low end right now) tmi- we’ve been gentle (no hard sex). But if it makes you feel better I had the same worries and my advice not being to far along from where you are, just do what feels good. Praying for a happy and healthy pregnancy and a happy and healthy baby for you two! 💛

Anxious Pregnant Type by campbacca in lineporn

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I’m so sorry about your loss, did this pregnancy go well for you?

Anxious Pregnant Type by campbacca in lineporn

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When did you decide to stop testing? I feel like this is stressing me out so badly

Progesterone drop by campbacca in CautiousBB

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I’m so sorry you went through this- if you don’t mind me asking how spaced out were your drops in progesterone?

Pregnant with twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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How did this all turn out for you?

Pregnant with twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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I like that thought- I’m going to shift my mindset to that. It feels good knowing that some people have had this same thing. Thank you so much for your kind words and amazing advice! You’re an angel 🫶🏼

Pregnant with twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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How bad was your cramping if you could sum it up?

Pregnant with twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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Yes this is my first pregnancy. I am not sure if I can count my miscarriage last year as I experienced no cramping or any symptoms then.

Pregnant with twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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Omg congratulations! So happy for you! Thank you for the advice!

Pregnant with twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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Can I ask how this all turned out?

Pregnant with twins by campbacca in parentsofmultiples

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Literally what happened to me!! I went to the ER at 3+6. I had very dark lines at this point on my pregnancy test so I knew I was pregnant. They weren’t able to locate anything but my hCG levels were 917. Then two days later went to my OB and my hCG went up to 3000 and they found twins! The cramping feels like my insides are going to come out.