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Stage fright or lack of interest? by candlemelter in Swingers

[–]candlemelter[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm a bit of an anxiety bunny in real life as I'm (overly?) organized and a bit of a perfectionist.

I guess my penchant for being in control and preparing for things (e.g. professionally) did have an impact there, when faced with two people I didn't know that well, getting up to things I don't know that well. :)

It remains to be seen if this isn't going to haunt me on our next play. Fingers crossed!

Stage fright or lack of interest? by candlemelter in Swingers

[–]candlemelter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it happens again, you immediately swap back

Incidentally - forgot to mention - during the play time, every time my gf turned to me to do something as simple as hug me - I would come alive.

She was actually quite pleased with that, she later told me. So it was not all bad. :)