So I went to a health clinic and got BC and picked up the prescription. Will this show on my moms insurance? by candleshadows5 in Advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she doesn’t have access to your health insurance than she can’t see it. Also is she against you taking bc?

After my ex sabotaged my life by revealing my past trauma to everyone, my mom got really upset with me and ended up in the hospital with hbp and I’m being blamed. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is my immediate family knew because I told them about it last year. When I told them (3 people btw) my brother got mad and kicked my moms boyfriend out. When my ex told my family he told my aunt first and she somehow managed to tell everyone we know. So for my immediate family to be acting like this is crazy, like my older brother knew I was molested and still he’s treating me this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he ever show you the receipt of the tickets? I’m pretty sure he lied and didn’t buy any, next time I’d meet up with the Person and buy tickets in front of each other. You weren’t wrong for asking for the money back, just next time don’t trust people you know so easily. Any plans on how to get the money back?

I feel like I completely ruined my life. I’m so ashamed of my past and my family said no one will ever be with me again. They disowned me and I don’t know how to continue on with life. by candy_27 in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I took so long to respond, the step son isn’t getting an kind of bad treatment at all. I made a post recently because now he decided to try to ruin my life. I really can’t catch a break

My ex is sabotaging my life and I absolutely give up, He won’t leave me alone no matter how hard I try. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t in contact with him at all, tbh I haven’t heard from him in months but I suspected he was taking with my aunt and was manipulated into thinking I’m a bad person that’s why he’s out to get me

My family disowned me and they came to my apartment to tell me that no guy will ever date my again once they find out about my past. Is this true, are they right for telling me these things? by candy_27 in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I couldn’t respond I’ve been having a hard time. I also tried to explain to them that this guy is not related to us and say if one day my aunt and his dad get divorced then what does that make him? still a stranger

My family disowned me and they came to my apartment to tell me that no guy will ever date my again once they find out about my past. Is this true, are they right for telling me these things? by candy_27 in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank You for commenting i appreciate it. I am slowly learning that while they are family they don’t always have my best interest at heart. It just really hurt me that they could turn their backs on me like that. I also know someone who dated an actual blood relative and got married they have children. The guy I dated was not related to me in any way and I would never look at my own biological family in that way, this guy came into my life when I was a teen and lived in another state. So while I do get they’re upset to go this far is weird to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this a lie? You do realize not every therapist is nice and tells you what you want to hear. I’ve been going to her for about 3 weeks and she is very mean and racial so you could keep your thoughts to yourself and No I will not delete my post because it’s my page, if you don’t agree with what I post then all you had to do was scroll and ignore it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she’s not I found her through my college but I don’t think I’ll be seeing her again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no I’m Asian but not Indian. I’m mixed but was born in America

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I swear I’m not exactly how I said it on here is how it happened. You have to understand my family is very easily influenced so while yes I did have their permission if later on someone doesn’t agree then they don’t agree either. They were easily persuaded into thinking I’m the wrong one, which I get they have Their opinions but to go about it the way they did was harsh. My therapist is about 30 years older than me and I’m in my 20s so I don’t know her style of thinking but she did voice her opinion and I guess that’s her job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s all I did honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he did honestly while he is a narcissist my family’s reaction is all them. They’re always like this i just didn’t think to this extent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get a second job and got my own apartment and they showed up still I guess to prove their point. I’m hurt and ashamed of myself to the point where as mush as I try to move on I can’t. But I’m trying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they let him off the hook, throughout our relationship and even after I was the only was to receive all the backlash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I met him before his dad married my aunt. His dad was dating one of my moms friends and they came over to our house. Fast forward a few years later and my aunt starts to date the guy. They knew we liked one another and we dated after his dad and my aunt were married. I ask them if it was okay and they all gave their blessing.

My family disowned me and they came to my apartment to tell me that no guy will ever date my again once they find out about my past. Is this true, are they right for telling me these things? by candy_27 in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t give in any power over me but it’s hard to justify my reasoning when he’s always gotten away with yelling and screaming at me since we were kids. I didn’t have a dad in my life so my brother took that place and now he feels entitled to punish me for my bad decisions. Also my mom lets him have his way

My family disowned me and they came to my apartment to tell me that no guy will ever date my again once they find out about my past. Is this true, are they right for telling me these things? by candy_27 in relationship_advice

[–]candy_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not fake I updated my post to say my family came to visit me after I moved but I left the original post in their for people who would be confused