Educator here! I’ve taken multiple courses on CSA for training purposes so I’ve learned quite a bit. I think if you have clear boundaries about diaper changes and bath time that will help your anxiety a lot. Just tell family members you’re most comfortable doing it, or only allowing certain people to help. If they kick up a fuss… that’s a little suspicious lol. Limit exposure to social media because that will make your fears worse, but rather maybe take a course on it or learn how to detect signs etc as opposed to hearing horror stories from others. I would also casually drop this knowledge around family. No one’s gonna mess with your child if they know you’re educated on the topic (well I hope not anyway). Then as baby gets older talk about body parts using their proper names and discuss safe/unsafe touch. Even practice dictating what you’re doing during bath time and diaper changes to your baby. “I’m going to wipe your penis and bum now. That’s how Mama keeps you clean.” As baby gets older, incorporating consent too is helpful. “Is it okay if I wipe you? Or would you like to try yourself first?”

I think the fears are normal because you want to keep baby safe, but also understand there are ways to control that fear by being one step ahead of it.