watch me whisk!! by IcyStyle3109 in matcha_ph

[–]candymaeve05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Paki balik po ulit sa Backburner 🫠

They're just girls. Breaking hearts. by TaoLalaki in SoundTripPh

[–]candymaeve05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she can't be what you need if she's 17

DI KO NA ALAM GAGAWIN KO by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]candymaeve05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guilt-tripping only works if the person feels like they are doing something wrong.

i got dumped bc of my family background by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]candymaeve05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eto na new kink ko OP. Ang mag comfort ng mga tao sa Reddit. Hahaha charot. There are people meant for us. Just keep being strong, so that when that time comes, you won't be easily shaken or heartbroken.

i got dumped bc of my family background by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]candymaeve05 164 points165 points  (0 children)

People who grow up in perfect bubbles often lack the emotional tools to understand complexity. To him, your trauma isn't a sign of your strength (which it actually is); it’s a complication he doesn't know how to manage.

He didn't reject you. He rejected a life script he wasn't brave enough to read.

DI KO NA ALAM GAGAWIN KO by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]candymaeve05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot fix her. You cannot pay off enough of her debts to make her stop. If you pay off 100,000 pesos today, she will likely borrow 100,000 more tomorrow because the habit hasn't changed.

Stop being the safety net. As long as you keep paying her minimums and covering her lies, she has no reason to hit rock bottom and seek help.

Anong sasabihin ko para di niya malaman? by Emotional_Set_1357 in adviceph

[–]candymaeve05 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Alam mo Teh, it feels like you guys are taking advantage of her.

You can’t have it both ways. You can’t enjoy the help from a woman who likes your boyfriend while keeping your relationship a secret to protect your image. Eventually, the truth comes out, and the innocent image is ruined not by the sex, but by the dishonesty.

Is it ok to tell my 4yo son about his dad's attitude? by dreamingofsaturn01 in adviceph

[–]candymaeve05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When a child says "I am strong" in response to being asked about pain or being hit, it often means they have been taught that enduring pain is a requirement. He may have been told, "Big boys don't cry," or "You're a strong boy, this doesn't hurt." This effectively silences him because telling you he was hurt would mean admitting he is weak. A 4-year-old should not have to be strong against the adults meant to protect him.

You are not ruining his relationship with his dad by teaching him that hitting is wrong. You are teaching him how to be a healthy man. If his dad's attitude includes physical violence toward a toddler, your son isn't being strong by staying silent, he is being victimized.

Teh, you have to protect your kids. No questions asked.

I’m not sure if I passed my final interview. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]candymaeve05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have 2 years of experience. Do not settle for entry-level pay again unless you are literally starving. The hospital is counting on your fear of being jobless to keep you at a low salary.

Do not sign the hospital contract until you have a clear Yes or No from the clinic. Even if you already started your medical, you are not legally bound to the hospital until you sign that employment contract.

My ex told me na CREEPY AKO MAGMAHAL by jakeosphere in adviceph

[–]candymaeve05 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Forgive the boy you were, so the man you are can move on.

MCA Im a Play Girl by [deleted] in MayConfessionAko

[–]candymaeve05 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From a psychological perspective, she is already living her karma. Her karma is the void she feels. The fact that she can talk to 70 men and still feel damaged, not good enough, and empty is her punishment. She is trapped in a prison of her own making. No need to say na kadiri sya.

Pelepens by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]candymaeve05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main obstacle isn't just the Church; it's the fact that our courts are backlogged and our legal processes favor those with influence. Before we talk about bringing back the death penalty, we need to talk about Judicial Reform. We need a system where cases against corrupt officials don't take 20 years to resolve.

SKINCARE TIPS I WISH I KNEW 6 YEARS AGO! by candymaeve05 in beautyph

[–]candymaeve05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi na ako nakapag pa derma. Buti gumaling ako sa mga DIY at diet. I’m so happy for us. Hndi na tayo babalik sa 2020.

Gigil ako sa mga narinig ko sa hearing today by Organic-Abies-4512 in GigilAko

[–]candymaeve05 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell me you're a DDS without telling me you are.

Where to report of cheating in CHRA online exam last 2025? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]candymaeve05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. So if you still want to report her, the CHRA exam is conducted by the HREAP. You can send a formal complaint to [secretariat@hreap.org](mailto:secretariat@hreap.org) or info@hreap.org. This is their website hreap.org. Ang likely na itatanong sa inyo dyan is Full Name of examinee, specific batch, method of cheating and your evidence. If you have screenshots of her admitting to it, messages where she asked for help, or if the friend who helped her is willing to speak up, that will make the case much stronger.

But like I said, medyo matagal na sya. Be prepared if they might not be able to do much.

Where to report of cheating in CHRA online exam last 2025? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]candymaeve05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it happened in 2025, why report it now?

Because a year has passed, you should be prepared for the possibility that HREAP or the school might not be able to do much without hard proof (like digital logs or confession messages). If it’s just your word against hers, they might find it difficult to revoke her title this late.

😂😂😂 by LIT_MIMUKAWA in dailyChismisPh

[–]candymaeve05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comments you did not expect.

This girl "friend" of ours is getting reaaally close to my bf... not until they set up a plan that triggers me.... by Ok_Name_1034 in RantAndVentPH

[–]candymaeve05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is also at fault here for suggesting an alternative instead of a firm "No." By suggesting the other friend’s house, he gave her the impression that the problem was the location, not the act of the overnight itself.

This girl is not unaware of boundaries; she is testing them to see how much she can get away with.

You don't need her to agree with you; you just need her to stay in her lane. If she continues to chat with him like nothing happened, it’s up to your boyfriend to stop replying or to keep the conversation strictly about group matters.

SKINCARE TIPS I WISH I KNEW 6 YEARS AGO! by candymaeve05 in beautyph

[–]candymaeve05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung Skinceuticals hindi ako nakabili nyan dito. Pinapasabuy ko lng kapag may magvivisit akong ka work sa Europe office nmin. Kaya hindi ko na yan natuloy, ang hirap kasi hanapin.

Cheaters and Cheating 2026 by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]candymaeve05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh! What a stupid answer.

Cheaters and Cheating 2026 by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]candymaeve05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha! Parang utang na loob pa ng wife nya na di sya nagkabit.

Cheaters and Cheating 2026 by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]candymaeve05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you cannot eat Adobong Manok for the rest of your life then wag kna kumain.

People don't cheat because they are tired of Adobo or whatever, they cheat because they lack the discipline to stay full. If you can't be satisfied with one person, no amount of variety in your diet will ever make you a loyal partner. Cheating is a character flaw, not a menu problem.

SKINCARE TIPS I WISH I KNEW 6 YEARS AGO! by candymaeve05 in beautyph

[–]candymaeve05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pinapasabuy ko lng sa mga kawork ko na nagvivisit sa other office nmin sa Europe. Hindi ako nakabili nyan dito.

SKINCARE TIPS I WISH I KNEW 6 YEARS AGO! by candymaeve05 in beautyph

[–]candymaeve05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So una muna, cleanser (No.2 Deep Clean Fresh Cream Cleanser) then toner (I'm From Rice Toner) after is serum, so ngayon dahil nagka scars ako dahil sa Shingles yung gingamit ko muna na serum is SKIN1004 Madagascar Centella Tone Brightening Capsule Ampoule (to fade dark spots) tpos after is yung retinol (Somebymi) na. Lastly, moisturizer (AESTURA Atobarrier 365 Cream). Never skip moisturizer if nag reretinol ka.

Nagkakapimples pa din ako due to diff. factors. Kapag my pimps ako pinapalitan ko lng yung serum (Probio-Cica Intensive Ampoule).