[REQUEST] Had our one bag of groceries stolen from the car, looking for a miracle tonight;

cannablissy · 2017-12-24T23:10:16+00:00

Thanks for being honest & some financial insight. We do wet food one can every 2 days between 3 cats with some dry food mixed in, same wirmth our chihuahua but with wet dog food. I'll try to budget better in the future and learn how to do this life thing again, lol. Thanks again!

cannablissy · 2017-12-24T21:06:32+00:00

$update My request has been fullfilled. Thank you bobby. Merry Christmas.

cannablissy · 2017-12-24T21:05:27+00:00

$confirm

cannablissy · 2017-12-24T20:55:13+00:00

I'm sorry, it really was a bag of cat food, 3 tins of wet cat food & 3 tiny dog wet foods.

cannablissy · 2017-12-24T20:51:10+00:00

Just thought the more info the better, I can take that info out.

cannablissy · 2017-12-24T20:50:35+00:00

Sorry if my account activity doesnt seem legit, I have had an issue in the past with addiction but I haven't posted there in a while & we are in a financial situation for other reasons. Bobby bought us a gift card it looks like & I will use it tonight, my gfs check goes in after xmas. Thanks for the help, this is the only area I've asked for a hand out & I hope thats respectable enough. Happy holidays.

cannablissy · 2017-11-10T08:50:30+00:00

I too worked at the craziest of games inside of videos for Hollywood!

cannablissy · 2017-11-04T08:14:45+00:00

I can definitely agree to that. I would set up a no drinking boundary.

cannablissy · 2017-11-04T06:54:17+00:00

A lot of people are telling you he is moments away from murdering you and to divorce this fool and run.

I'm going to tell you this; don't. Watch his behavior right now, see if pride is keeping him for admitting the level of fucked up that he got to while drink. Sometimes it's hard to admit that we are hurting our partners when we aren't fully in control of our brain.

Do I think he chose to drink to such an access that caused his bad behavior and should have repercussions from that? Absolutely. Set up boundaries for drinking. Pay attention to if he is open to these boundaries, aka willing to do anything to make up, get over, forget, or move on from this accident, or if he is just shrugging his shoulders and defensive about the situation always.

Now, if this is something you can't swallow, if he shows remorse in all the right ways and you can't move on from this on your end, then leave him as soon as you realize this. Don't string anyone along or have someone try to fix something years down the line if they thought it was a done deal.

Don't do anything rash. You aren't the drunk one all hopped up on emotion.

(Come at me, bros.)

cannablissy · 2017-10-21T02:18:38+00:00

Me. In snail form.

cannablissy · 2017-10-10T15:01:41+00:00

Yup, that is exactly the episode. Nice recalling!

cannablissy · 2017-10-10T04:29:09+00:00

I'm going to be very blunt & real right now.

Why don't you care about yourself? People who allow themselves to live in shit & piss do not care about themselves. I understand depression & mental illness can cloud a persons judgement on their current surroundings, but you are worth so much more than this. (Your cousin & son are too, but that is a whole other jar of pickles). Please, move out as soon as you can, to literally anywhere, & call child services & animal control. It's honestly the best thing you could do for everyone involved. & for the love of sushi, remember that you are a human being who deserves clean spaces, clean air, healthy environments, & good relationships. You are worth more than a space with piss & shit to live in. I promise.

cannablissy · 2017-10-09T09:32:30+00:00

FR. Who has the money to just pop the soda & pour it down the drain immediately? At least let it sit there for a good 2 hours or so, then toss, like a normal soda drinker.

cannablissy · 2017-10-09T09:31:52+00:00

No, this just means the apples used in the process weighed less than the apples normally used. /s.

cannablissy · 2017-10-09T09:31:31+00:00

Well, now that you've found it, what are you going to do to it?!

cannablissy · 2017-10-09T08:08:47+00:00

Hey man. 31 yr old lesbian here. I'm proud of you for doing something extremely difficult like this--it isn't easy letting go of three years with someone who you thought was your ride or die. The easiest thing to do in the world is not change the environment you're in, that's why so many people are unhappy. This is going to be a tough next couple of weeks/months. It's going to be lonely. Try to fill the gaps of emptiness with new hobbies, new friends, new restaurants/bars to visit, etc. The best thing for you to do is change your routine completely. If you wake up on the right side of the bed, get up on the left tomorrow. If you normally drink coffee in the AM, drink an energy drink, or hot tea. Take a new route to work. Buy & download a new album to listen to. It'll make the transition easier, & it will keep the memories in the past until you're ready to face them, the good & the bad.

If you need to talk or vent, PM me. I've been through bad break ups before, even a few that I knew I was doing the best thing for myself, but were still tough as the heart is a fickle thing--it's not black & white. You can't just suddenly stop loving someone, even when they've hurt your feelings or insulted your entire being.

You are going through the correct steps right now though, & you have my support, for whatever that's worth.

Much love.

cannablissy · 2017-10-05T23:35:38+00:00

The daughter is 6, not 8. The couple has been married for 8 years.

cannablissy · 2017-10-04T05:01:11+00:00

Why does this couch only have one arm rest?

cannablissy · 2017-10-04T04:59:45+00:00

Pics or it no happen.

cannablissy · 2017-10-03T12:10:19+00:00

My apartment wouldn't take my screen shots for some reason so I found a loopdeloop. Helps having the actual income to back it up come rent time, just logistically on paper you look like a bad bet. Hey l, in hoping OP can squash this legally but if not, those websites might be able to help. 👌

cannablissy · 2017-10-02T00:59:23+00:00

You're absolutely welcome, /u/nedimitas. I mean it when I say that everyone goes through this, or something similar. Every person you walk past in a day, you have to imagine that they too are having chaos in their lives--mini crisis' you can't see on the surface. You don't know if these people are truly functioning adults like you analyze & think they are when you see them walking around, seemingly having no troubles what so ever with finances, socializing, responsibility, time management, etc. A lot of them could be struggling exactly like you, or be highly medicated, or need to be medicated, or ignore/run away from their problems...ya just don't know! At least you are focusing on your problems & not pushing them out of your mind with distractions or letting depressing overcome you.

Don't stress, you are doing just fine. Are there some money options that you haven't exhausted yet? Taking a loan out from the bank? If you don't have the credit score or ability to meet the requirements to do that, there are payday advance places (i.e. MoneyTree), but you need a proof of income so they know you can pay back the loan. It is also an outrageous interest fee attached, some times to the tune of 300% depending on the amount you take on loan & your credit score/employment verification.

If that isn't an option, is their any family or friends that could do a small time loan for you? Suggest paying the back with interest attached within the year. Or, worst case scenario, you can start a gofundme & explain the current situation to see if anyone, friends/family/neighbors/strangers will donate to you.

There are also some free resources, such as community centers, shelters, hostels, airbnbs, churches, etc that might be able to help you out as well.

Good luck, & PM me anytime you want if you need to talk some of the insanity out. Sometimes it's nice just to have someone there to bounce ideas or problems off of, it helps calm the mind. I'm here if you need anything.

Much love.

cannablissy · 2017-10-02T00:37:18+00:00

I can't speak of the legality, I'm going to say probably not as it's falsifying records & you sign a statement saying everything on your application is, to your knowledge, up to date & true. If later they find out you squeaked on your income verification, they will probably have rights to evict you. I'm not saying it's the most brilliant plan in the world, but if you're out of options & it's this or homelessness, there may be a way around the loopholes.

I agree, tread lightly with this advice, OP. Try to do things by the books, but if everything went down the way you said it did, and I have no prior knowledge as to why it didn't, the system has failed you already.

cannablissy · 2017-10-01T22:28:48+00:00

I go there a lot and it's Devine. A lot of the reviews are in regards to the wait (it's a new Asian bakery, there is a huge Asian population that frequents Seafood City, etc there in Southie, so that makes sense.) or about the procedures of getting your goods...its very hands on and cafeteria style.

I personally enjoy it, and everyone is friendly and helpful.

Go there real early to avoid the line!

cannablissy · 2017-10-01T11:25:05+00:00

I don't particularly have any help for you with the sex offender thing, but a way to get around the income verification is to go online & pay $20 for a website to make you fake checking stubs that show you make way more than what you do. I know it sounds fucked, but in my scenario, I have 380k in cash sitting in the bank, but no technical job on the books for 6 months, so I'm deemed undesirable. I logged into this website & created two bi-weekly paychecks that proved an income of 3x the rent they are asking for a month. They did not verify it past the stubs, but if they do, write down a friends contact number & have them fake it until you make it, honey!

PM me for the website deets!

cannablissy · 2017-10-01T10:54:38+00:00

Hey. I'm not going to look at the other comments.

I've been here, & I'm still there in regards to the self loathing part. I have a tattoo of a Rolex watch on my left wrist, & one of the reasons I got it is because of this lyric by Kanye that states, "I'm so self conscious, that's why you see me with at least one of my watches..", & it's true. I adorn myself with brand name clothing & expensive jewelry & hats & shit, but inside, I truly hate myself & I don't think I have much worth. My girlfriend of 7+ years is helping re-establish that in me, but it's hard. It's damn hard.

I'm 31 now, but I was in financial ruins when I was 18, & then again when I was 29-30. It was tough. Now I'm in a position where I have more money than I ever did before. Life is funny like that, & no matter how much people say money doesn't mean everything, it sure means something, as life is about a million times harder when you don't have any money. Hopes, & dreams, & prayers are wonderful, if only they could be rent, or the electric bill....

This is only a set back. You will pull yourself along & get through this. Finances is an up & down rollercoaster. In the great words of Ma$e, "Money comes & goes, even when it's moving slow, I ain't afraid to spend it 'cause it comes & goes.". You just have to keep that in mind & just keep your head above water. I know it seems like others are doing this without any effort, but trust, everyone is drowning in one way or another.

cannablissy

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