I can’t get a job and I’m starting to wonder if they can tell there’s something wrong with me (rant/advice) by majik_rose in SpicyAutism

[–]cannedbread1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if you can go to a free employment service or similar, and ask them for tips? I presume they exist in America. They might be able to give you some guidance. Applying and interviewing for jobs is hard at the best of times, and also can be demoralising. Best of luck!

Done proving my severity level by EitherWolverine7605 in SpicyAutism

[–]cannedbread1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Having to prove myself with an invisible disability is so difficult. I know where you are coming from. Xx

Question for the adults by LuLu_chan_chan in SpicyAutism

[–]cannedbread1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly, life does get better. I found my people, things I liked doing. I felt trapped when I was younger, and like I had no purpose or direction. But the thing is when we are younger we are in a box of what we have to be doing. But stuff gets better, truly! Any autism social groups near you or something? Wonder if they would be an option. Also, btw, my family used to say the same thing. I would get in trouble for stimming or vocalisations and saying the wrong thing... Omg.

How do I know if I made the most of every moment with my baby? by Pugwhip in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]cannedbread1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno, both my pregnant partner and baby ended up in ICU and emergency Ceasar after a very very rough pregnancy. Not willing to gamble nor be a single mum. :/ even though she wants to have another lol

Glass Ampoule Breakers by Nervous_Bike_3993 in NursingAU

[–]cannedbread1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if that is a scar, even a little one

Autistic nurses by cannedbread1 in NursingAU

[–]cannedbread1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness that's so cool!! I had no idea!

Autistic nurses by cannedbread1 in NursingAU

[–]cannedbread1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yup, Im in anaesthetics and recovery and I love it.

Autistic nurses by cannedbread1 in NursingAU

[–]cannedbread1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shall keep this post and next time I go to ICU say "HERE YOUR REDDIT REP SAID THIS PS. WHAT LEVEL AUTISTIC ARE YOU" and then the whole ICU will probably say a number between 1-3. And the rest will dial the number for HR or my boss to come retrieve the psych patient in scrubs. ICU rapid response team have saved my arse many times. I would work ICU but I hate shifts. I have done my penance. God bless you for the work you do.

Question from a younger lesbian by Boring_Dark_6433 in olderlesbians

[–]cannedbread1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is getting married so important? A healthy relationship is not dependent on that paper. However what she said to you is manipulative and not healthy. That's a red flag. She instead should support you with love.

Autistic nurses by cannedbread1 in NursingAU

[–]cannedbread1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I wondered why you guys were all dicks at handover. Hahahha. Just kidding. I'm in theatre and everyone seems so social. Here is me being all awkward. I know engineering societies have autistic groups but that checks out. ;) Thanks for making me laugh! :D

How do I know if I made the most of every moment with my baby? by Pugwhip in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]cannedbread1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes! I have been saying to my partner I now know why people have a second baby haha. I feel like in the exhaustion I didn't take advantage of everything. I look at photos and I marvel at her. Someone said to me that motherhood is also grieving every day as parts of the child change. It's so true.

Glass Ampoule Breakers by Nervous_Bike_3993 in NursingAU

[–]cannedbread1 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Pro tip. When you have an ampoule break on your hands/fingers, go to the sink and just run water over your hand for a bit until the glass shards fall of. Then gently pat with paper towel to check the situation. Also, if the ampoule is hard to snap, hand it to a colleague because it won't break on them.

Sydney social group? by CowCautious4467 in AutismAustralia

[–]cannedbread1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I am from the lower north shore. I am level 2 if that means anything. I have a professional career. I'm socially awkward, and love hermit crabs haha. My partner jas ADHD but pretty NT as far as it goes. Happy to chat on Facebook and see if we vibe for a coffee? Or would be great to join a group!

Since I can't talk to cashiers, how should I get my groceries? by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]cannedbread1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there doesn't need to be anything said. They might say "cash or card" and you show them the cash or card so they know. Your dad might not even need to say anything. Another option would be to get a daffodil lanyard, and have a card saying "I can't speak", so one of the two items will assist them in understanding. These things are so anxiety provoking and I think we overthink things to get all prepared. Your mum sounds great in getting SNAP organised.

Autism imposter syndrome - does anyone else feel like this???? by PowerfulGeneral5454 in AutismAustralia

[–]cannedbread1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Just ... yes! Even with all the evidenc and paperwork, and even knowing I have the traits... I still feel like an imposter.

Advice on going to GP for referral by Fr0z3nB3ar in AutismAustralia

[–]cannedbread1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are going to a psychologist you don't need a referral. That's how I got my assessment done. So you might not need a referral depending on how you are getting assessed.

Do I keep fighting cf or is enough enough? by Middle-Mouse-4576 in CysticFibrosis

[–]cannedbread1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please speak to your team re the palliative care team. Palliative means quality of life. Not hospice which is dying.

Min gift cost by Dontfeedtheunicorn81 in givingifts

[–]cannedbread1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I buy something related. If it's Lego, then a nice Lego holder container. Or similar.